Comment on of course it's by choice why would you even ask
NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 2 days ago
This is where I’m at.
Funny enough, I’ve learned you’ll never get flirted with or hit on in your life nearly as much as you will once you’ve genuinely lost all interest in having a relationship. So, if you want that attention, the key is to truly not at all want that attention, then it’ll be knocking down your door and blowing up your phone. Life is fucked liked that.
I’d say it’s just that some people are conquerors, they won’t settle for a quick win and they won’t accept getting shit handed to them. They want what’s hard to get. This obviously applies to women too, which is why some men just can’t find love no matter how hard they try.
One doesn’t just simply expose their whole deck and then expect to win that round.
Why does that need to be a gendered thing? Doesn’t that apply to all people?
I don’t hear much of any female loneliness epidemic, do you?
I’m sure it’s the same, I feel the male loneliness epidemic is also a big bubble that we live in, others probably don’t even know it exists
itsjustachairmary@lemmy.world 2 days ago
I have literally never had anyone flirt with me but maybe I’m just blind as an aro/ace lmfao
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 2 days ago
I had a woman just tell me to meow and woof. I did zero flirting.
I did the meow, but once I caught on that it was some sort of BDSM/kink thing, I sent the no thanks bro gif.
FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Maybe you give off a no romance vibe, so any hopeful suitor who interacts with you and starts to learn more about you quickly starts to see you as strictly friend material.