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glimse@lemmy.world 4 weeks agoHave you?? It’s about getting cheated on, he’s clearly not on board with it lol
Cuckolding doesn’t imply consent. In fact it pretty specifically implies that the man doesn’t know it. The word has been in the English language for almost a thousand years, whereas the fetish is relatively new.
Fun fact: giving someone “bunny ears” by putting two fingers behind their head used to be referred to as “the horns of the cuckold”, and it meant that you were saying that person’s wife had been unfaithful.
He wrote “cucked” which is modern slang
So? The definition is the same.
You can look these things up before you comment.
Why on earth would I look up the original definition for a word when someone used the slang that derived from it and I already knew both definitions?
That’s just turning the adjective into a verb. It’s literally the same thing. This is a common practice in the English language. It doesn’t change the meaning, only how it’s used in a sentence. If someone “cucks” you, that’s them doing the action that makes you a cuck(old).
dmention7@midwest.social 4 weeks ago
4chan/Incel culture has co-opted “cuckolding” from a consensual kink to mean just plain old getting cheated on.
hakase@lemmy.zip 4 weeks ago
Kink culture has co-opted it from plain old getting cheated on to a consensual kink.
Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 4 weeks ago
My kink is watching people argue over the difference.
brotundspiele@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
May I watch you watching them? Because that’s my kink.
Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
Sick fuck!
moakley@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
So you really think the fetish came first? Because the word predates the modern fetish usage by like 800 years.
It comes from the cuckoo bird, which engages in nest parasitism. It lays its eggs in another bird’s nest to be raised by birds that aren’t its parents.
three@lemmy.zip 4 weeks ago
…if you’re not going to do anything about it, i.e. sick there and watch it happen, that’s the definition of cuckoldry
rumschlumpel@feddit.org 4 weeks ago
Ugh, another “literally”. Fuck that, let’s not validate incel nonsense.