Sex brings pleasure and consequences in children/std or even physical injuries. Also sex is largerly overrated when we have videogames and anime.
AbsolutelyNotAVelociraptor@piefed.social 11 hours ago
American/christianism puritanism at its best.
We’ve been taught that violence is fine, every human is violent and, in some cases, it’s even a good thing. But god forbid you manifest sexual desires in public!
Like… mate, do you realize that violence only brings pain while sex brings pleasure?
Then you realize that the whole point of both is to make your life miserable and things start making sense.
Mika@piefed.ca 9 hours ago
AbsolutelyNotAVelociraptor@piefed.social 8 hours ago
Unlike wars and violence that bring pleasure without consequences to the rich fucks who send kids to kill themselves for them.
Certainly, we should have more wars and less sex, it only makes sense, right?
Mika@piefed.ca 8 hours ago
False equivalence. Are you American or what?
AbsolutelyNotAVelociraptor@piefed.social 8 hours ago
No.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 hours ago
Have you heard of this these things called condoms?
Or birth control?
Or fleshlights and vibrators?
…Did you ever take a sex ed class, or no?
Mika@piefed.ca 8 hours ago
STDs are not 100% prevented by condoms, and STIs are not prevented at all. The more sex partners you have, the bigger the odds you’ll have consequences.
Toys as substitute to what, physical contact? Having a partner?
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 hours ago
… Or you can have sex with people who both use protection, and … go to the doctor at least once or twice a year, and include an STD/STI screen in their checkups.
You know, actually knowing the people you’ve had sex with?
I’ve had sex with between 10 and 20 different partners.
Some flings, some serious relationships.
Did this with all of them.
No STDs/STIs, for any of us.
Even if you do have certain STIs/STDs, there are ways that you can greatly reduce the risk of transmission, manage things.
I bring up toys because you bring up injuries, games, and anime.
There are a lot of different kinds of toys and other sex aides that can make sex easier and/or less likely for anybody to injure themselves, for a wide variety of potential injuries and body types, sex positions.
Also, while sure toys are not the same thing as a partner, I’d argue that they’re more sexually satisfying than just looking at game or anime, and there’s a good deal of evidence that its unhealthy to not orgasm at least semi-regularly, when you’re younger, for both your mind and body.
And also, toys can be used by or with partners, even remotely, and we are now at the point where sex toys essentially are or can be video game controllers, basically, can output uh, sensations, and can also input your ‘commands’.
arrow74@lemmy.zip 6 hours ago
Consequences is just a wild thing to say.
When I get a cold no one jumps on my shit for having to live with the consequences of going outside. They say sorry to hear you’re sick feel better
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 hours ago
aren’t STDs and STIs the same thing???
Agrivar@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
You should try having good sex once or twice, and then get back to us.
SwingingTheLamp@piefed.zip 7 hours ago
That’s difficult when doctors amputated all your best sensory receptors shortly after birth.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 hour ago
I mean, I got the snip snip at birth, I am not pleased about that, but also, hasn’t stopped me from having (responsible) fun.
… Unless you are talking about female ‘circumcision’, in which case…
… Yeah ok, you got a point with that one.
But if you are a dude, unless they really royally botched things up, then I’d maybe try some different kinds of stimulation, perhaps in different places, to uh… see what really gets your juices flowing.
thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 hours ago
“Religion demands it” is not an excuse for child genital mutilation to be legal. Freedom of religion includes freedom from religion. The government must never pass religion-motivated laws nor use religion as a reason or excuse to do something nor as a reason against something. I personally would rather have the government ban religion than involve it in laws (but the ideal would be it doing neither).
The child did not consent. The parents’ consent counting as consent by the child is bullshit.
Also the practice includes intersex erasure: children lucky enough to be born fully androgynous are immediately mutilated, usually by removing the male parts.
Agrivar@lemmy.world 7 hours ago
Yay for foreskins! Or are we talking about the far more barbaric female circumcision?
boonhet@sopuli.xyz 4 hours ago
Well the best sex happens when you and your partner both love each other so it might not be very feasible for them if they behave the same IRL as here.
QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 11 hours ago
so you’re saying instead of bombing countries we don’t like we should organize an orgy in the magnitude of hundreds of millions of people? fair enough
trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
Make love, not war
curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 10 hours ago
…. Seems like its worth a try.