Comment on Why does it seem like women are more wont to make noise in sexual situations while men don't?

• HopeOfTheGunblade@kbin.social ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Oh goddess does the temperature tolerance change. Turns out the fat distribution matters a lot for that!
  Also yeah there's a line in the first altered carbon book about how for men, skin is armor, and for women, a sensory organ, and it's a little exaggerated, but it's pointing at a real thing.

  Re personality: that's harder to judge, because you have so much going on. It's a major change in your life, you're altering how you and the world interact with each other, so it would be hard to avoid your personality going through a rock to mud transition and shifting, but I think there's definitely some shift towards social responsibility, yeah. Obviously there isn't an exact measurement, but I think it's pretty common.

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  • CapeWearingAeroplane@sopuli.xyz ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I’ve never heard about women’s skin being generally more sensitive, that’s really interesting! I always thought the difference in temperature tolerance had to do with women having a thicker sub-skin fat layer (might not be the correct English term for “underhudsfett”). Have you noticed any other physiological changes that you think can be attributed to the transition?

    Sorry if I’m a bit direct, I just think the biology of the human body is fascinating, and I’ve never really before thought of the insight that we can get from people that have experienced “both sides” of the spectrum, so to speak.

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    • HopeOfTheGunblade@kbin.social ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Pelvic tilt is a pretty obvious one, part of why women have shapelier asses and also reduces height a little bit. Emotions definitely feel more accessible, although I have heard that trans guys also get some of that sometimes so that might have more to do with dissociating less, but I also get some urge to cry at stuff like... Last night I was watching a movie with my girlfriend and characters were talking about people they'd lost, and it was an effort not to cry.

      You can ask me literally anything you actually want to know about without losing points with me. Just be sure you want to know. There's a pretty good chance I'll answer and if you didn't want to know you might have regrets.

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      • CapeWearingAeroplane@sopuli.xyz ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Cool! I didn’t know about the pelvic tilt either, and it’s interesting to hear that both mtf and ftm transitioners (is that the right term?) have similar experiences regarding emotional accessibility. And thanks for opening for questions, I’m going to fire off a couple right away:

        Have you experienced any change in sleep patterns?

        Any significant change in appetite? If yes, how? Both regarding amounts, and what kind of food you “crave”?

        I’m assuming you don’t menstruate, but do you have any kind of hormonal “cycle” that would be similar? If so, how is it?

        PS. It’s veery late in my time zone, so I have to sleep now, but I appreciate any answers I get, and I’m looking forward to reading them :)

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    • Can_you_change_your_username@kbin.social ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      There's no common language name for the fat layer under the skin in English, the medical term is most often used which is subcutaneous fat.

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      • CapeWearingAeroplane@sopuli.xyz ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Y’all need more combined words! Why can’t we just call it “underskinsfat” or “subskinsfat” and be rid of the problem? I much miss the option in the English language of just plugging together whatever words I need in order to create a word that gets the point across. I hope the devs will add that in a future update.

        Without that option you can’t get words like “ashstuck” to describe the specific situation where someone is stuck somewhere because flights are cancelled due to ash in the atmosphere, typically from a volcanic eruption.

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    • livus@kbin.social ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      The only difference I was aware of with skin is that the collagen fibres are arranged in a different pattern and women's has less elasticity because of it.

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• ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Skin sensitivity, smell, taste, posture, temperature tolerance, it can all change!

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  • Bebo@literature.cafe ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Wow that was very interesting to know

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• agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Cis, but I’ve heard that MtF typically your vision becomes more sensitive to color differences, and FtM it becomes more sensitive to shapes and outlines.

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  • Kase@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Ftm here, I’ve never heard of this before. If anybody has further information, I’d be very interested

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• solivine@sopuli.xyz ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I know for MtF the temperature tolerance goes down because of physical changes. I’m sure the hormones change things mentally, whether you’re aware of it or not. They’re a big change.

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• OurTragicUniverse@kbin.social ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Ftm guys say the same thing as you about sex after transitioning though, so I'm pretty sure this just boils down to sex being more fun when you're on the right hormones and don't hate your body.

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• captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  So personality changes in the same way antidepressants have them. But yeah the rest absolutely. I became more scent over vision, increased pain tolerance relative to mental state (but happy has way less physical pain tolerance than dead inside so it’s not necessarily an increase), and everything is too damn cold

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