Trans man, I would say I vocalize more now that I’m T but that might just have to do with my life circumstances significantly improving at the same time, so I tend use my voice more often in general.
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ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 months ago
Trans woman here, and I can say from first hand experience that hormones change sexual response and desire. I’m guessing (and only guessing) that that is at least a part of the reason.
I know my own experience changed and i vocalise more, but even I can’t tell you why.
RaspberryRobot@lemmy.world 7 months ago
peopleproblems@lemmy.world 7 months ago
You know I’ve never really thought about it until now, but besides the hormones helping your body match who you are, do the hormones change anything mentally? I assume no personality changes, but I’ve wondered if things like senses, pain, temperature tolerance etc. change.
HopeOfTheGunblade@kbin.social 7 months ago
Oh goddess does the temperature tolerance change. Turns out the fat distribution matters a lot for that!
Also yeah there's a line in the first altered carbon book about how for men, skin is armor, and for women, a sensory organ, and it's a little exaggerated, but it's pointing at a real thing.
Re personality: that's harder to judge, because you have so much going on. It's a major change in your life, you're altering how you and the world interact with each other, so it would be hard to avoid your personality going through a rock to mud transition and shifting, but I think there's definitely some shift towards social responsibility, yeah. Obviously there isn't an exact measurement, but I think it's pretty common.
CapeWearingAeroplane@sopuli.xyz 7 months ago
I’ve never heard about women’s skin being generally more sensitive, that’s really interesting! I always thought the difference in temperature tolerance had to do with women having a thicker sub-skin fat layer (might not be the correct English term for “underhudsfett”). Have you noticed any other physiological changes that you think can be attributed to the transition?
Sorry if I’m a bit direct, I just think the biology of the human body is fascinating, and I’ve never really before thought of the insight that we can get from people that have experienced “both sides” of the spectrum, so to speak.
HopeOfTheGunblade@kbin.social 7 months ago
Pelvic tilt is a pretty obvious one, part of why women have shapelier asses and also reduces height a little bit. Emotions definitely feel more accessible, although I have heard that trans guys also get some of that sometimes so that might have more to do with dissociating less, but I also get some urge to cry at stuff like... Last night I was watching a movie with my girlfriend and characters were talking about people they'd lost, and it was an effort not to cry.
You can ask me literally anything you actually want to know about without losing points with me. Just be sure you want to know. There's a pretty good chance I'll answer and if you didn't want to know you might have regrets.
Can_you_change_your_username@kbin.social 7 months ago
There's no common language name for the fat layer under the skin in English, the medical term is most often used which is subcutaneous fat.
livus@kbin.social 7 months ago
The only difference I was aware of with skin is that the collagen fibres are arranged in a different pattern and women's has less elasticity because of it.
ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 months ago
Skin sensitivity, smell, taste, posture, temperature tolerance, it can all change!
Bebo@literature.cafe 7 months ago
Wow that was very interesting to know
agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 7 months ago
Cis, but I’ve heard that MtF typically your vision becomes more sensitive to color differences, and FtM it becomes more sensitive to shapes and outlines.
Kase@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Ftm here, I’ve never heard of this before. If anybody has further information, I’d be very interested
solivine@sopuli.xyz 7 months ago
I know for MtF the temperature tolerance goes down because of physical changes. I’m sure the hormones change things mentally, whether you’re aware of it or not. They’re a big change.
OurTragicUniverse@kbin.social 7 months ago
Ftm guys say the same thing as you about sex after transitioning though, so I'm pretty sure this just boils down to sex being more fun when you're on the right hormones and don't hate your body.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 7 months ago
So personality changes in the same way antidepressants have them. But yeah the rest absolutely. I became more scent over vision, increased pain tolerance relative to mental state (but happy has way less physical pain tolerance than dead inside so it’s not necessarily an increase), and everything is too damn cold