Comment on Anon goes to therapy
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 3 days agoThe problem is you don’t know if your therapist might be an asshole before speaking to them.
Comment on Anon goes to therapy
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 3 days agoThe problem is you don’t know if your therapist might be an asshole before speaking to them.
k0e3@lemmy.ca 2 days ago
You just look for a new one then right? I dunno how it works in other places around the world but we don’t have to sign up for an annual contract or anything here in Japan.
snowdriftissue@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Generally speaking people who need mental health help are going to be more easily discouraged by a negative interaction than the general population even if they can afford therapy in the first place. In the US at least there’s also a shortage of therapists, meaning you might have to wait a long time to see anyone at all.
Hudomi@lemmy.world 2 days ago
In Germany, it’s a nightmare to get a therapist in the first place. I called every number available to me, each of them was packed to the brim. Even the waiting list was full. Save for one, who I was able to at least talk to, but she didn’t reach out to me in almost a year now.
So basically, you need to have insane luck to get therapy. Hearing some people jump from therapist to therapist just like that sounds almost like an utopia.
lessthanluigi@lemmy.sdf.org 2 days ago
Apparently, German men would die of having a mental breakdown when on a waitlist of seeing a therapist than actually getting therapy
zaphod@sopuli.xyz 2 days ago
Sure, you just look for someone else, but it’ll take a while, and then you don’t know if your new therapist is also an asshole. And the last interactions with therapists have left some scars that might discourage you from even looking for a new one. Besides the mental health issues that you have might already make it hard to just pick up the phone, which doesn’t make looking for a new therpist easier.