Comment on Anon asks out a girl

• squaresinger@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Listening in on conversations is creepy, no matter how good-looking a person is.

  And that stuff happens in movies doesn’t mean it isn’t creepy in real-life.

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  • canofcam@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Not really. If you were discussing with somebody about some terminal illness you were raising money for and somebody approached and said: “Sorry, but I overheard what you said and I’d love to donate, if that’s okay” that would not be creepy in the slightest.

    There is a difference between ‘overhearing’ and ‘purposefully spying’

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    • squaresinger@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Well, OP wasn’t donating money, was he?

      The scenario you brought up would be creepy too, but people tend to value money over the slight discomfort of creepiness.

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      • canofcam@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        In what world is it creepy to overhear somebody saying something in a public place? Have you ever been in a social situation before?

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• gmtom@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  If he was handsome it would still be creepy

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• Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Handsome/Ugly is in the eye of the person, remember. Just because one person found you not attractive, doesn’t mean they all do.

  Fuck Hallmark movies, Don make me vomit

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  • blarghly@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Of course everyone is entitled to have their own opinion of what is beautiful. But there are some pretty obvious statistical convergences.

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• samus12345@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  “Hello, Human Resources??”

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• blarghly@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  It’s not so much creepy if ugly, so much as creepy if not confident.

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