Comment on CNC

• Holytimes@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I feel like calling it rape play is just more honest.

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  • ricecake@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    It’s more blunt, but people who have been raped would point out that there’s a big difference between the sexual nature of consensual non consent, and the objectively violent nature of rape.

    It’s less that it’s less honest than that it’s more clear about what it is, and what it isn’t. It’s about what people think rape is about, and not what it actually is: angry, hateful and violent.

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    • Rekorse@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Well I needed someone to explain consentual non consent to me because its not really logical, and I didnt need rape play explained to me, so there’s that. Seems sort of silly we needed a politically correct term for it in the first place.

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      • blackris@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Seems to me, it is more an accurate term. „Politically correct“ is still signage of „I am a right-wing asshole“ btw. Even when those assholes switch terms regulary.

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      • ricecake@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        You do know that no one made them switch terms right? The people doing it and using the term decided to change it because it made it more clear when they were talking to each other.
        Since you hadn’t encountered the idea before, I don’t think they’re super concerned about their sex lives being easy to explain to you. Your opinion isn’t super relevant to other people’s sexual preferences or the words they use to talk about it to each other.

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    • Petter1@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      But consensual non consent as well as rape can be soft

      Eg free use -> CNC

      Or use of power, like financial dependency -> rape

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      • ricecake@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        That’s fair, and a good example on the first one.

        I don’t really care to quibble on the details too much, but I believe a lot of definitions would distinguish the coercive from the forcible.

        In either case, it speaks to the cnc phrase being more apt than otherwise.

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  • bitjunkie@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    It got ruined by anti-edgelord zoomers who put shit like “seggs” in their TikTok captions to prevent demonetization.

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• rumba@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Eh, I’ll make the mill please…

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• PrettyFlyForAFatGuy@feddit.uk ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I prefer “struggle fucking”…

  consensual of course

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• cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  And the use of computerized numerically controlled fabrication can’t be part of consentual non co!sent because…???

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  • Jarix@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    If you say so I’ll believe you. Not my cup o tea

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    • cassandrafatigue@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I’m just imaging a ‘no Mr. Bond. I expect you to die’ situation, but, I dunno, sexy?

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      • Kellenved@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        What about that situation isn’t hot to begin with?

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• Devjavu@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  And let me guess, it’s not called that anymore because 1. it’s not really rape 2. it got mixed up too often and then people got soft on it?

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