Comment on Anon is feeling romantic

• SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml ⁨17⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Take your Incel garbage and get the fuck out

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• leftytighty@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  “why can’t I get a date” the Lemmy account

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  • Allero@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    someone criticizes any aspect of modern online feminism

    Everyone: incel detected

    Any other option is automatically dismissed.

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    • MotoAsh@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      You would be right if OP wasn’t responding and making it very clear that the generalization is going both ways for OP. They’re assuming all feminists think men are generally bad, which isn’t the case. Sure, some feminists are judgemental sexists, and one old wave of feminism was based on being angry at men, but it’s still wholly ignorant to assume all feminists are sexist.

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      • Allero@lemmy.today ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Fair on that one!

        Indeed, most feminists are not that. It’s just that this particular flavor of it grew to be increasingly toxic, and any sort of approach to it (granted, OP went too far to go for generalizations themselves) is treated with forks.

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    • Walk_blesseD@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Bro you are functionally illiterate. That wasn't a coherent criticism of a specific tendency within online feminism that dickhead made, it was a broad and concavebrained generalisation.

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      • Allero@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        No, you’re just knee-jerking. I only said that assuming someone criticizing feminism “can’t get a date” is a very stupid take and that it’s broadly applied to every critique on every level.

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    • leftytighty@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      is your whole instance like that

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      • Allero@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        I’d say it’s representative of humanity thanks to its neutrality.

        You’re not banned left and right for having a “wrong” opinion, as Internet’s greatest ruled out.

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• cows_are_underrated@feddit.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  That’s a small group of people. Not feminism as a whole. Feminism in general aims at overcoming the patriarchy and therefore creating true equality between the genders. Overcoming the patriarchy also means, that men are liberated from its chains. This means, that men are allowed to cry and show feelings without being judged.

  Feminism is not something, that aims at dragging men down, but eleveting society as a whole.

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  • Honytawk@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Don’t even say it is a small group. You don’t have to be truthful to these kinds of people.

    Make exaggerated statements just like them if you want to talk to them. Stay on the same level. They don’t understand anything more.

    So no there are no feminists who say that.

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  • MacNCheezus@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    As I said…

    men don’t universally conform to a stereotype

    Not all men are part of the patriarchy, because some of them are victims of it

    therefore they must all confirm to a different stereotype

    Therefore all men should become feminists

    also men bad

    But men are still the cause of all the evil in the world

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• Honytawk@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  That isn’t feminism.

  And I should know, I am a feminist and I don’t hate myself.

  That stereotype is equally as dumb as saying men don’t have emotions.

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  • MacNCheezus@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Source: trust me, bro.

    lemmy.today/comment/18331316

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