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Habahnow@sh.itjust.works 10 months ago
yeah embarrassed for your dad. “evolve” wtf. this is too little context, but this can range from your dad genuinely caring about you(“complain you’re unable to find girls”) but the execution isn’t great, to just wanting to push you into doing certain things. This definitely requires a conversation with your dad about boundaries.
On another note, if you are trying to find people to date, you should figure why things aren’t working there, and see how you can improve your chances ( are you well kept? are you comfortable talking to new people? do you expose yourself to new people in order to both meet new people and also practice talking to new people? )
just1earthling@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Habahnow@sh.itjust.works 10 months ago
It still feels like that’s crossing a boundary, i don’t know how you feel about that. I do recommend practicing socializing. Go to bars, events, etc. and just try to make conversation with people. Yeah you may start off being awkward, but you’ll get more comfortable as you practice.
Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 10 months ago
That’s because it is.
But sometimes crossing a boundary can be a good thing after all.
TheBat@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Poland disliked that
blarghly@lemmy.world 10 months ago
He didn’t cross a boundary if OP never established a boundary.
supamanc@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Your dad is a legend, get him a bottle of whiskey and tell him you love him!
EldritchFeminity@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 months ago
No, he’s an asshole. I’d punch him in the face and break contact for a while.
frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml 10 months ago
He hooked.him.up.with a goodlooking 27-year-old.
Reacting badly to good things is neurotic.