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• latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Many, many victims of domestic abuse would disagree, I’m sure!

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  • GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Would you say that domeatic abuse victims have good relations with their abusive parents?

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    • Acinonyx@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      blahaj.zone

      what did you expect?

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      • ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        I think they were saying that “good relationship with dad” isn’t a prerequisite for “marrying a dad-alike,” that sometimes “bad relationship with dad” also gets “married to dad-alike,” they’re just both bad guys in the latter case.

        Like, a woman who’s dad beat her/mom as a child can grow up to marry a husband who also beats her/their child too, and in that way she has married someone like her dad.

        I don’t think they were claiming that being abusive is good, nor do I think that’s the general consensus on blahaj.

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  • RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    (But only if they are in a good relationship to their fathers).

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    • latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yes, that’s what I was referring to, it’s not exclusively women who’ve had good relationships with their fathers, some go for their aggressive and violent father’s look-alike.

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