Comment on Discussion Thread 🦕 Wednesday 4 June 2025

• Seagoon_@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  it’s appalling 😠

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• Duenan@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Sounds like the same friend who keeps arriving late.

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  • LowExperience2368@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    It’s actually a different “friend” unfortunately. I’ve had to set boundaries with them because they were ruminating about a problem and bringing me down. Today they brought up that problem, despite me communicating to them that constantly bringing up a problem and pretty much trauma dumping on me was a problem. So I am done with them I think.

    The other late friend has improved quite a bit.

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• LowExperience2368@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  Got a message saying they’d be running late, but didn’t get anymore updates until they got there, despite me asking.

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  • tone212_@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    That is just no respect for your time. Not a good friend.

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    • LowExperience2368@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      I could’ve just sat down and studied - that’s what we were there for - but I couldn’t find a spot in the area we were supposed to meet. If I had just gone myself to the area I was going to go in, it would’ve been fine.

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      • Seagoon_@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        Next time when they are a bit late go to your work area , send them a message telling them where you are, and say you will wait for them there

        If they complain tell them your time is valuable. ( and it really is , it’s not just words )

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