Sounds like the same friend who keeps arriving late.
Comment on Discussion Thread đŚ Wednesday 4 June 2025
SaneMartigan@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨weeks⊠ago11 / 12:30 is pretty rough. No call or text?
Duenan@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Itâs actually a different âfriendâ unfortunately. Iâve had to set boundaries with them because they were ruminating about a problem and bringing me down. Today they brought up that problem, despite me communicating to them that constantly bringing up a problem and pretty much trauma dumping on me was a problem. So I am done with them I think.
The other late friend has improved quite a bit.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Got a message saying theyâd be running late, but didnât get anymore updates until they got there, despite me asking.
tone212_@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
That is just no respect for your time. Not a good friend.
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
I couldâve just sat down and studied - thatâs what we were there for - but I couldnât find a spot in the area we were supposed to meet. If I had just gone myself to the area I was going to go in, it wouldâve been fine.
Seagoon_@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Next time when they are a bit late go to your work area , send them a message telling them where you are, and say you will wait for them there
If they complain tell them your time is valuable. ( and it really is , itâs not just words )
Seagoon_@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
itâs appalling đ