Yeah as a bottom with a large partner with delayed ejaculation I can say that while people seem to value length and stamina/lasting power in porn… the reality is there’s advantages to not accidentally knocking the absolute stuffing out of your partner and tiring them to the bone whenever you do the deed.
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BreakerSwitch@lemm.ee 3 weeks agoThis is the correct take. As someone well endowed, I get to either be real real careful and avoid a lot of positions, or date exclusively masochistic girls who want it to hurt. As a result, I have had the thought “I’m not sadistic enough for this girl” during sex before.
DrivebyHaiku@lemmy.ca 3 weeks ago
Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Yes please. I’m sorry guys, but it’s not a super power to “be able to keep going and going” without effort. That’s called desensitivity, and it’s troubling.
I don’t like always having to be the one to decide when sex has to stop. I don’t like when every act ends because I’m getting sore. It makes me feel like a buzzkill. If you can’t sometimes stop yourself first, sex risks becoming a chore for your partner to endure, instead of a mutually-enjoyable act of bonding.
Just some food for thought.
OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
Hitting the cervix does NOT feel good. Its painful.
RBWells@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Yeah. I actually do like big, occasionally. But also I like everyday sex, and with big guys you need some time between to heal & recover. This is NOT an advantage. Guys seem to think bigger is better, full stop. That’s just not true.
weissbinder@feddit.org 3 weeks ago
Some like to get their cervix poked though
BreakerSwitch@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
Some, but, in my experience, a relatively small minority.
pressedhams@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
What a humble brag.
Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Yeah, how dare people with big dicks share their experiences. They can’t possibly have any issues worth complaining about. Thus, every time they reference themselves, they are inherently “bragging.”
What childish nonsense.
Landless2029@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
And that’s the problem with being well endowed. It comes with its own problems and you can’t openly talk about it because someone always goes “Boo hoo you got a big sick, shut up”
Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
It goes the same for women with big chests. I have to order my bras online and they’re expensive as shit, but according to some people out there, I’m not allowed to complain.
Landless2029@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Yeah “well endowed” goes for both sides.
There’s also back issues for breasts. Some women get reductions for it.
Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
You read these two comments and are still sticking with ‘the bigger, the better’?
pressedhams@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
Sure, not having a vagina negates the 5 inch depth limit.
BreakerSwitch@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
How else am I going to attract girls who negate the depth limit?