Comment on Anon measures up
DrivebyHaiku@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
Aight, so whomever needs to hear this. The average vaginal canal is only about 3-4 inches long and might lengthen to about 5 inches if relaxed. Despite what bad porn anatomy might tell you it can hurt to go deeper than that. All of the nerve endings are clustered at the opening.
The prostate is two inches deep. Virtually all the same mechanics apply.
Your penis is fine.
BreakerSwitch@lemm.ee 2 months ago
This is the correct take. As someone well endowed, I get to either be real real careful and avoid a lot of positions, or date exclusively masochistic girls who want it to hurt. As a result, I have had the thought “I’m not sadistic enough for this girl” during sex before.
pressedhams@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
What a humble brag.
Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Yeah, how dare people with big dicks share their experiences. They can’t possibly have any issues worth complaining about. Thus, every time they reference themselves, they are inherently “bragging.”
What childish nonsense.
Landless2029@lemmy.world 2 months ago
And that’s the problem with being well endowed. It comes with its own problems and you can’t openly talk about it because someone always goes “Boo hoo you got a big sick, shut up”
Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It goes the same for women with big chests. I have to order my bras online and they’re expensive as shit, but according to some people out there, I’m not allowed to complain.
Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 2 months ago
You read these two comments and are still sticking with ‘the bigger, the better’?
pressedhams@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Sure, not having a vagina negates the 5 inch depth limit.
DrivebyHaiku@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
Yeah as a bottom with a large partner with delayed ejaculation I can say that while people seem to value length and stamina/lasting power in porn… the reality is there’s advantages to not accidentally knocking the absolute stuffing out of your partner and tiring them to the bone whenever you do the deed.
Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Yes please. I’m sorry guys, but it’s not a super power to “be able to keep going and going” without effort. That’s called desensitivity, and it’s troubling.
I don’t like always having to be the one to decide when sex has to stop. I don’t like when every act ends because I’m getting sore. It makes me feel like a buzzkill. If you can’t sometimes stop yourself first, sex risks becoming a chore for your partner to endure, instead of a mutually-enjoyable act of bonding.
Just some food for thought.
OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 2 months ago
Hitting the cervix does NOT feel good. Its painful.
RBWells@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Yeah. I actually do like big, occasionally. But also I like everyday sex, and with big guys you need some time between to heal & recover. This is NOT an advantage. Guys seem to think bigger is better, full stop. That’s just not true.
weissbinder@feddit.org 2 months ago
Some like to get their cervix poked though
BreakerSwitch@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Some, but, in my experience, a relatively small minority.