Maybe it’s just me but I feel like an AMA from your perspective as a poly individual would be very interesting, as long as folks were respectful.
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vapeloki@lemmy.world 2 months agoI am poly, so, I have no troubles with this. As long as they keep separate bedroom action, I don’t see the issue
misterdoctor@lemmy.world 2 months ago
systemglitch@lemmy.world 2 months ago
No, it is a very unhealthy community that lies to outsiders trying to make it sound like the paradise it will never be.
There are so many layers to always have to peel with poly groups.
They are almost always young and it never lasts.
Just do yourself a favour and avoid those thought virus’.
misterdoctor@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I have zero interest in becoming poly, exploring the idea, etc. it doesn’t appeal to me at all. But from a sociological standpoint, it’s very interesting to me personally to consider the dynamics of those relationships and to understand how they can vary from person to person, group to group.
I don’t have any experience with that community but I promise you that painting with a broad brush like you’re doing is wrong. You don’t know this individual. You’re assuming the worst without ever engaging in conversation with them personally. Unless you do know this person in which case I apologize.
systemglitch@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I go with normal expectations, and have enough experience to know, this is a good generality.
On an individual level this can change, but the main pattern persists outside of an individual basis
bassomitron@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It can be unhealthy. But, it truly depends on the people and their reasons for doing it. You can’t just blanket apply statements to people.
systemglitch@lemmy.world 2 months ago
But you can to groups of people
JandroDelSol@lemmy.world 2 months ago
a lot of monogamous relationships don’t last either, buddy
systemglitch@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Very true, but also not relevant
vapeloki@lemmy.world 2 months ago
This comment brought me to: yes, there should be an AMA!
Srsly, polyamorous relationships are a complex beast. And no, they are not better or worse then other relationship models. They are just different.
systemglitch@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Lol they are definitely worse for mental health overall.
vapeloki@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I am open to such an AMA. Any place on lemmy where this would work?
misterdoctor@lemmy.world 2 months ago
This is the one I’m most familiar with: lemmy.ca/c/askmeanything
Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Why separate bedroom action?
Korne127@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Lukewarm take: If they consent, they can do what they want, and share the bedroom if they would want that.
vapeloki@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I would have an issue with it, personally, because related. But this would be my personal limit