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TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 weeks ago
It’s low key funny that the only people that think this way are such insufferable bastards that they can’t get a coffee date with anyone
I’ve heard it said that marriage was invented by men as a sort of peace agreement to guarantee one woman per man so that no men were totally shut out of sex. In earlier times, when wealthy or powerful men hoarded the women, this led to serious problems from those men on the losing end of the society.
So yeah, in essence, this douche is trying to level the playing field between his sorry ass and more successful men.
This isn’t a serious point discussed by anthropologists.
Sometimes I think there’s cause and effect at work (in either direction) but really they’re the same picture.
Like they wouldn’t be such insufferable bastards if they had a coffee date?
In a way, I think there’s some truth there. If they learned the social skills and unlearned the brain rot that would make it easier for them to land a date, they would improve. And the date itself reinforces that behavior.
Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
That’s why he wants Chad out of the dating pool! It’s not about any sort of morality, he just doesn’t think it’s fair that Chad has 10 girls, and he can’t find one (willing to take over where his mother left off.)
TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 weeks ago
4chan has done so much damage to these poor men.
You can play HOI4 and date, it’s really not that hard, you just have to be a respectful person
xigoi@lemmy.sdf.org 4 weeks ago
The fuck is HOI4?
CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 weeks ago
That last part is what trips so many incels. They can’t see women as equals. They see them as parts that operate upon a special sequence of words and actions that they don’t want to figure out because they are horny.
The number of women I talk with who have been harassed within the first message of a dating app is almost 100%.
I’m an average looking guy. I don’t consider myself funny. I genuinely enjoy getting to know people. I do pretty okay out there.
Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Reminds me of the same logic that Sovereign Citizens use. If you use the correct magic words with flowers and dinner, then you unlock access to the girlfriend.