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Steak@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

• riseandrealise@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

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  • LesserAbe@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    How long have they been messaging you? Are there other cases where they’ve indicated knowledge of “real life” events?

    To me it seems more likely they’ve compromised your email or texts than that they got lucky and observed you going to the police station. If you mentioned in a digital communication to anyone that you were going to file a report, and the stalker compromised something digitally, then they would know.

    For the stalker to actually observe you going to the police they would have to be pretty dedicated to watching your home, which is both risky (that they could be seen) and labor intensive.

    If you drove there, it’s conceivable that they put a tracker on your vehicle.

    Probably doesn’t need saying but I think it’s extremely unlikely they have sway over the police or made a report disappear. It’s easy enough for nothing to happen in the normal course of business.

    Lastly, do you live with someone or have a close relationship with someone that you don’t get along with? If you’re experiencing “real life” interactions with this stalker seems more likely it’s someone you know rather than a complete stranger.

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    • conditional_soup@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Vehicle trackers are cheap and common enough. OP should definitely check for that.

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  • IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Jesus christ. I’m wondering I the stalker is a cop 🤔

    Have you have an interaction with a cop recently?

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    • InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      That’s sadly not uncommon.

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    • riseandrealise@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

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      • sanguinepar@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        I wonder if any of the devices (assuming you still have them) might be a route to identifying where and when they were purchased.

        The phone’s IMEI number for example, is unique to that specific device - so in theory there ought to be a way to find out exactly who sold it, where, when and ideally to whom.

        Not that this is something for you to do yourself, but it could be a line of enquiry for police or (as I suggested in a previous comment) a lawyer.

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      • IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Bruh, that is so fucked up.

        I’m not sure if there’a any way to get out of this.

        What does the press in your country look like?

        Maybe talk to journalist?

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  • possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Why are you Ok with this? I would walk into the police station and say you want this to end. It is surprisingly easy to get a restraining order.

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    • argon@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Restraining order against whom? An unknown person using throwaway phone numbers?

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      • possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        You would first need to get there identity from the phone company.

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  • Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    This person texts admitting to stalking you, thensends texts admitting to bribing the police? Did you call the station with your tracking number to confirm this? Or take your copy of the report to another station if you did confirm it was buried? Those details will help round out your creative writing exercise here.

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