mranachi
@mranachi@aussie.zone
- Comment on How do you gently tell someone you only want to keep seeing them if it's on a dating level? 2 weeks ago:
You’re taking the wrong path, I see some things that you may not be considering.
Friendships don’t need to be defined by beginnings and ends. The gentlest way to cool a friendship is to spend less time with them.
Spending time within someone you find attractive doesn’t screw with your psyche. An internal cycle of hope and rejection does.
She already rejected you, you said it in the post. ‘Its not the right time’ is not an invitation to wait, it’s a gentle no (and it’s much worse approach than just saying no). Accept it and move on. If your thoughts wander to oh but maybe we could be together if I do something - remind yourself she said no. If you need further clarification ask again.
Threatening to end the friendship for a romantic relationship has zero good outcomes. If you can’t handle the rejection or don’t want to be her friend, then stop making time to see her. The only reason to explain that it is ‘because you want more’, is the thought that it will change her mind - remember emotional manipulation is gross and rapey but don’t worry you haven’t done it yet. Thinking about things isn’t doing them.
Also, you sound like a young man, so I just want to affirm that the drive to have sex can be wild strong, and make clear thinking hard. It’s okay, just remember you don’t want be with someone who you can get to agree to a relationship with you, you want to be with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you. Everyone is worth that much.
- Comment on Anon makes a modern game 4 weeks ago:
Makes sense if you’re paying extra for the colour
- Comment on shrimp colour drama 2 months ago:
*we detect the direction of light by the location in the eye…ect.
There fixed it for you.
- Comment on World Leading Moderna Vaccine Facility Opens In Victoria 6 months ago:
Just in time for bird flu!
- Comment on A freight train of voter anger might be about to hit Albanese 6 months ago:
Yes, I think that is how the whole world is voting… But I’m worried that the solution we’re all voting for is a bigger dick, so that what we’re experiencing today will seem pleasurable by comparison.
- Comment on Labor, Coalition to suspend Lidia Thorpe from the Senate after she tore up a motion by Pauline Hanson 6 months ago:
Penny Wong happy to say storming out, throwing papers and flipping the cunts in your meeting the bird wouldn’t be allowed in any workplace - I beg to differ that’s like a HR reprimand at worst for first offense.
Systematic discrimination towards a college based on race? Doesn’t that have legal consequences? Instant termination at my workplace.
Fuck Penny, fuck Labor.
- Comment on Victorian Liberal Party member & local candidate Louise Black uncovered as a regular in Neo-Nazi circles 7 months ago:
Will he cover it thought, it’s not greens bashing after all.
- Comment on Tiny pp 7 months ago:
Look, I don’t want to disagree with your point… But I can’t stand by as you suggest that we evolved from cave men… We may have created civilisations, but we’ve not evolved into a civilized creature… We’re still as uncooked as were 60k years ago.
- Comment on If Australians knew the whole truth about Indigenous history, Lidia Thorpe’s royal outburst would not have been a shock | Celeste Liddle 7 months ago:
I’m inclined to suggest some minor edits… “Either you voted yes or you’re unengaged and/or racist and/or have been manipulated by a brazenly racist no campaign.”
- Comment on If 1 million people sign a petition, a ban on rendering multiplayer games unplayable has a chance to become law in Europe 10 months ago:
Care to explain your point with some detail?
If this fails, I doubt we’ll see a second proposal. So I think it would be fair to measure any arguments you make as why no action is better than the proposal.
Correct me if I am wrong, but this petition doesn’t decide the wording of any law just ensures it is brought to attention of EU lawmakers and discussed right?
- Comment on ‘Radical’: A film to provoke thinking 1 year ago:
I’ve not heard of naplan described as child abuse, but my uneducated position is inclined to agree. Standardized testing, comparative ranking, ECT to me feel like necessary evils that should only be used when required, not applied board strokes.
In am interested to read more about the impacts of standardized testing if anyone is knowledgeable.
- Comment on Hundreds of CSIRO jobs under threat as union warns against ‘gutting’ of Australia’s science agency 1 year ago:
I work in a large university with a policy of lumping as many administrative duties on the academics as possible.
Why do we want professors coding credit cards to university accounts, managing employment contracts and job listing’s, offices for staff, travel bookings ect ect? Is this how we want our tax payer grant money spent?
- Comment on we don't talk about powerpoint 1 year ago:
Just latex to svg your math for impress.
For real though, it’s such a miss for impress to not have in line math
- Comment on Maths 1 year ago:
I prefer mafs
- Comment on Is Netflix's One Piece good? 1 year ago:
No one two jango was maybe the biggest miss, otherwise pretty good… especially given the absurdity of making one piece live action.
I really liked luffys accent… fit the character for me. Sanjis too.
- Comment on [MEGATHREAD] Starfield - Your experiences! 1 year ago:
Inventory limits are a direct nerf to barrelmancy