erev
@erev@lemmy.world
Just passin’ through
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
i think it’s possible to self immolate without posing a massive danger to everyone. it takes precautions and training because you don’t want a molten man flailing around, but there have been people who have done so without posing a serious threat or risk to anyone else.
- Comment on Is it true that addicts never stop being addicts, they just replace their addiction? 3 weeks ago:
i think it’s less withdrawal and more your body flushing out all the cannabinoids, as well as going from smoking daily to not at all is a massive shift in body chemistry. that may have symptoms associated but may not necessarily be withdrawal, although that line can be blurry
- Comment on A wonderful day begins 3 weeks ago:
Although more recently they’ve been the (mostly) reliable first contact in the event of a school shooter, the SRO is usually first on scene and relays into to responding officers.
Well that was the idea anyways
- Comment on Does anyone speak hairdresser? I need help communicating. 4 weeks ago:
π=5 for most hairdressers
- Comment on the talent 1 month ago:
this is some tasty j- OH NO MY BONES!!!
- Comment on Can you live a fulfilling life with autism? 1 month ago:
By whose metric? I’m a weirdo and by and large it’s seen as more of a good thing, usually.
- Comment on Sounds like a fart 1 month ago:
these are pistol rounds and thus most likely subsonic. If it’s a supersonic round then yes, but it is possible to hear the shot before you get hit. Possibly even more likely with this.
- Comment on Sounds like a fart 1 month ago:
I think it might direct the sound so it may sound louder if you’re the one getting shot
- Comment on Dude almost lost his life 3 months ago:
that’s what im questioning. if he was a more flamboyant queer person would people have laughed it off? based on the comments i suspect they would have. it’s the fact he was “aggressive”; which i agree he may have been a bit forward and i wouldn’t recommend opening like that but he was also mostly respectful when rejected. I don’t think he’s trying to hurt anyone nor was anyone in any danger, he just probably knows the type of people he likes and they probably know him.
- Comment on How do I get over my ex? 3 months ago:
Thank you for your insight, I really appreciate it. I am doing my best to give things a fair shake with my partner as she’s wonderful. This is something I wouldn’t be able to do without her.
- Comment on How do I get over my ex? 3 months ago:
Thank you, I will.
- Comment on How do I get over my ex? 3 months ago:
I am with a wonderful and amazing partner which is why I feel so bad dealing with this particular issue. I really appreciate the support.
- Comment on How do I get over my ex? 3 months ago:
I have considered that possibility and I remain skeptical of myself so I don’t rule them out. But the evidence seems to be pointing to other things rather than that.
- Comment on How do I get over my ex? 3 months ago:
I wasn’t sure I’d get good advice as on Reddit I had gotten really mid results, but the lemmings have really stepped up. Hopefully I’ve provided as deep of responses as people have commented. I really appreciate everyone’s insight.
- Comment on How do I get over my ex? 3 months ago:
I do journal and I try to talk about it when it seems appropriate. I do like your idea of the clicker though!
- Comment on How do I get over my ex? 3 months ago:
Holy shit dude that’s not a perspective i had considered before. that’s massive damn. i need to chew on this for a sec but i genuinely appreciate this. i think your analysis is very accurate and helps me reframe the issue. it would explain why i feel like im making so little progress, because I’m not debugging the actual issue. thank you again!
- Comment on How do I get over my ex? 3 months ago:
I do write these types of things every so often. I journal pretty regularly and sometimes look back on it. I agree that the stalking portion is abhorrent and inexcusable. I think I just feel so disconnected from someone I miss from my life, especially as a friend, that I try to find some way to actually see what she’s up to without actually creating a social media account and reaching out, or sending an email. I just don’t think I’m in a place to actually do that in a healthy manner, which the actions detailed above clearly show. I really need to figure my shit out with this.
- Comment on How do I get over my ex? 3 months ago:
I think it really is the what ifs. She was the person I decided I would settle down and tamper my ambitions for. And then we broke up and it swept the rug out from under me. I’ve since decided to never make that decision again (my future plans will require me to maintain a very active and busy lifestyle) and not tamper my ambition for anyone, but that’s at the expense of properly “settling down” into a singular, stable place. But the what ifs on if things had gone differently or if I ever do see her again (very possible, we live in the same city and my parents don’t live too far from where she used to dorm). I am content with what I have now but I am skeptical of myself and worry that should I actually see her again, I may realize i feel differently. Rationally i know that what’s more likely is that two old friends will reconnect, and I’ll fully see that our parting was for the best, but I can’t help but wonder. Idk, this is gonna take a long time to fully debug and it’s so multifaceted that it always feels like you’re starting over. But mistakes do not define us or reset all our progress, they just remind us that we are fallible and thus human. They are to be learned from and grown from. Thank you for your insight, I truly appreciate it more than you know.
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- Comment on New Lemmy trend incoming 4 months ago:
My phrasing was off, i didn’t mean to say that that actually used rancid or sour milk. Rather the flavor of butyric acid is commonplace in a lot of American chocolate. And it’s a flavor i quite despise (despite loving Hershey’s growing up), hence the preference for non-American chocolate. I understand that sweeping generalizations are almost never true, and that there are plenty of American chocolatiers who make chocolate without that distinct sour note, but that doesn’t denigrate the fact that you can go to most places in the states that sell chocolate and get something with a sour note. For many people they like that, I personally don’t.
- Comment on New Lemmy trend incoming 4 months ago:
I specified American milk chocolate because American milk chocolate typically uses a more sour milk which gives it its distinctive flavour. Personally I can’t really stand it but to each their own.
- Comment on New Lemmy trend incoming 4 months ago:
the real crime is using Hershey’s or any other American chocolate 🤮
- Comment on Always look on the bright side of life 4 months ago:
The prison complex doesn’t want you to call it that, but yes. The 13th amendment makes a specific exception for slavery if the person is imprisoned. That’s why prisoners “work” for way below minimum wage in a variety of jobs that they probably didn’t choose. Not to mention that the majority of prisoners are people of color…
- Comment on Steamed Hams but it's Gen Alpha humor lyrics 4 months ago:
I’m still quite young but jesus this was difficult to sit through
- Comment on Will people respond better if you say you're teetotal, or straight edge? 6 months ago:
agreed. a good stoner doesn’t force anyone to smoke (although they may accidentally hotbox the room) and just wants everyone to be at their ideal level of high, even if thats not at all.
- Comment on Is it medically safe to you a butt plug made with PETG plastic? 8 months ago:
You could always try printing in ABS and do an acetone smooth to make it a nice surface There are also filaments that can be smoothed with IPA (isopropyl alcohol) that might work so long as the goal is just to make a mold.
- Comment on no, david 9 months ago:
David was a menace dnd practically the davil incarnate iirc