LillyPip
@LillyPip@lemmy.ca
- Comment on It's a service I provide 11 hours ago:
You can have my pickle. I don’t want it.
- Comment on Who does Temu think I am? 1 week ago:
I didn’t get it on temu, and it’s not exactly the same. They’re all the same basic design because they have to be to work, and I happen to have a red one. They’re come in all colours.
Weird. XD
- Comment on How often is normal to masturbate? 2 weeks ago:
I thought I was horny once, but that was just Rush Limbaugh dying.
Legendary comment.
- Comment on How often is normal to masturbate? 2 weeks ago:
Some people in that thread said the same. Like I said, everything is normal. There’s a huge range, from a few times a day to a couple of times a year. Just don’t judge yourself against others, and especially wth something as. Personal as this. I think your 2-3 times per day is perfectly fine. /hugs
- Comment on How often is normal to masturbate? 2 weeks ago:
I think everything is normal that is natural for you and isn’t disruptive.
Sorry for the Reddit link, and I don’t know your age, but you may find this discussion in the psychologyofsex sub interesting.
‘Normal’ is a very wide range.
- Comment on How often is normal to masturbate? 2 weeks ago:
As long as it isn’t interfering with your life, flick that bean. It’s not hurting anyone.
You don’t need to compare yourself to others. They’re not you. Twice a day doesn’t sound excessive to me. 20 times a day might, but twice? It’s your body.
Also keep in mind female masturbation has, until recently, been discouraged by western culture as deviant until fairly recently. It may be that some of your friends are downplaying their own regularity for social pressure (you already mentioned you vocally agree with what they say – others are probably doing that, too).
I do it every month or so for the dopamine, but I’m asexual. I’d say even a few times every day is fine. If you think it’s disruptive to your life, I’d recommend therapy, but that’s like if you can’t focus in a meeting because you haven’t done it for an hour and that’s all you can think about. Otherwise, just enjoy yourself. You’re fine.
- Comment on holy🤯 2 weeks ago:
God invented sin, then made himself human in order to kill himself to save people from himself. Makes perfect sense.
- Comment on Who does Temu think I am? 2 weeks ago:
Silicone cover for the part of a VR headset that touches your face. Makes it a bit more comfortable. I think this one is for a Quest.
- Comment on Girl Scouts are ramping up their tactics 2 weeks ago:
You may be right.it was in a collection of headline mistakes, and this is shitpost, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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- Comment on So majestic! 2 weeks ago:
Aw. Blacktop is so hot on our little paws. :(
- Comment on The end of civilization costs $5 3 weeks ago:
Sounds like work. People buy this ice likely either don’t care or don’t want to spend the time.
I’d never buy this, because I don’t even use ice, and if I did, I wouldn’t care about its shape. Seems silly to me.
But I can’t disparage anyone who sees that market, and that means it’s worth doing as a business, to some degree, probably.
- Comment on The end of civilization costs $5 3 weeks ago:
Packaging makes sense, too. We’ve been buying bagged ice forever. In this case, your ice has stricter quality control.
I have no need for this, but there’s clearly a market for it. I can’t disparage anyone for finding a market.
- Comment on VP Vance Says Watergate Would Now Be 12-Hour News Story and Crazy It Took Down Nixon's Presidency 4 weeks ago:
Well, he would know, having been involved in the biggest scandals to ever hit politics.
- Comment on Do you think that Trump is being blackmailed? 5 weeks ago:
It was Putin, and it wasn’t trump pissing on escorts, it was trump ordering underage girls to piss on the bed Obama slept in as he watched. Reportedly, it didn’t stop there.
Trump was staying at a hotel in Moscow, and Putin, being ex-KGB, had cameras everywhere, and he provided the girls. Putin has video of trump raping girls in Moscow. - Comment on When foreign countries try to reproduce US brans 1 month ago:
Yeah! Why should Ben have all the gay‽
- Comment on Whatever those lyrics are 1 month ago:
Look, gravity sucks, guys.
- Comment on It's not that bad quit whining 1 month ago:
doc knows she’s had a full hysterectomy, knows she doesn’t exaggerate, knows she refuses to take anything medincinal unless forced.
Sounds like medical PTSD. I’ve fucked my liver taking OTC meds in very high dozes cuz I don’t trust doctors. Had to have an emergency hysterectomy at 38 because they wouldn’t listen. That kind of pain is indescribable.
Had a cardiologist come into my room with a team of students to prove I only had anxietyand hypochondria a few years ago. Shortly after, Was diagnosed with Dysautonomia shortly after and I now have a pacemaker.
I’m done with doctors and would rather just die at home at this point. Fuck them.
Sorry for your spouse. ‘Womanly’ pain is the worst pain there is, imo.
- Comment on indoor mushroom farming 1 month ago:
Yeah, it seems very likely to be their weight.
- Comment on indoor mushroom farming 1 month ago:
Master understatement.
- Comment on Aerosol 1 month ago:
We managed to dial things back a bit, so that became a smaller problem.
We used to see regular news reports of actual rivers on fire. Things are still way too bad, but we forcefully throttled some things as we saw how quickly the damage was compounding.
- Comment on indoor mushroom farming 1 month ago:
Uhh…
- Comment on Just hanging with the boys 1 month ago:
Turns out fish are self aware and way smarter than once thought.
So maybe they’re critiquing your masturbation technique.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
I did.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 months ago:
I dunno – if someone said these exact words to me but sarcastically, that might actually work. Like, we might wind up having a conversation about how cringe this is, and so this line might work in a way.
- Comment on Pitching or catching? 2 months ago:
Dammit dad, go to bed.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 months ago:
I think two major things are understanding platform standards and that what users say they want is often not what they need or what will work best for them.
Innovation is fine, but IUE and usability are often better served by following common platform standards (for general apps on the OS, not necessarily trying to match existing and often shitty enterprise software).
Also, it’s important to look for root causes when people ask for a specific feature. Many users focus on specific UI elements when they’re having issues, and in a complex system, it’s easy to wind up with bloat by solving the wrong problem. This is often how enterprise software becomes so unwieldy, with options and elements seemingly vomited all over the UI. What users think they want and what they need can be very different things.
Sorry if this is too general or basic. It’s hard to design a system that works for beginners and experts, and A/B testing a mix of users early with lofi prototypes helps a lot. For existing software, just watching users interact with it is massively helpful.
Is this what you meant? Happy to be more specific if I missed the mark.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 months ago:
Yeah, sometimes it really hurt.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 months ago:
Nothing that techy. I did include power users in tests, but their requests were usually for specific hotkeys or to have their favourite (and lesser used by most users) feature front and centre.
It can be difficult to balance a UI for inexperienced and powerful users, but watching them interact with prototypes and the actual software does help.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 months ago:
As part of my career in software design, I used to run A/B testing and usability tests. This meant sitting with users and watching them use the software. Since IUE (initial user experience) was very important, this often included inexperienced users.
The data was absolutely worth it, and definitely improved my designs, but it took a lot of patience to watch people struggle and fail without intervening or saying anything that would affect the results. It was rewarding, but sometimes excruciating.
