Canconda
@Canconda@lemmy.ca
- Comment on Cool Japan 🌸 1 day ago:
- Comment on Chaos 3 days ago:
but I also get this intrinsically comfortable feeling, as if every cell in my body finds it familiar.
- Comment on Chaos 3 days ago:
In a weird way, fractals make more sense than non-fractals.
- Comment on Fossil Fuel Executives Cash In | Insiders at leading oil and gas companies have made millions from stocks since the Iran war began. 3 days ago:
I’ll never forget how my trust fund baby ex-friend gleefully described himself as a savvy investor for putting stocks into oil and gas.
**They don’t know that they have no clue. **
Rich people will instinctively drag us under like a panicked person drowning.
- Comment on Utopia 🌈 3 days ago:
Meanwhile right wing internet would be distributing khakis and trudgens.
- Comment on Chaos 3 days ago:
I’m not throwing salt but I find it delightfully ironic that you’re describing fractals as chaotic.
The recursion formula behind life itself?
Fractals in the Biological Sciences
Spectra of Reduced Fractals and Their Applications in Biology
- Comment on PSBLACKOUT (boycott of PlayStation) 3 days ago:
- Comment on PSBLACKOUT (boycott of PlayStation) 4 days ago:
controller haptics and trigger feedback
You mean the shit I loathe, disable, and avoid games that require it.
Sniping is sooooooooo much more immersive when the trigger vibrates as you squeeze it. /s
- Comment on PSBLACKOUT (boycott of PlayStation) 4 days ago:
Halo releases this week. Sony isn’t going to notice anything.
- Comment on Angry PlayStation Fans Propose PS5 Blackout in Protest of Sony's Disc Decision 4 days ago:
I got it for dvds.
- Comment on Man or Bear 🥩 1 week ago:
The Bear-ality of man
- Comment on Supreme Court will review Alaska's bid to seize pilot's plane over 6-pack of beer: "This case isn't just about me" - CBS News 1 week ago:
lmao whoops tytyty
- Comment on Supreme Court will review Alaska's bid to seize pilot's plane over 6-pack of beer: "This case isn't just about me" - CBS News 1 week ago:
Im glad you found it as amusing/mildly infuriating as i did haha
- Comment on Supreme Court will review Alaska's bid to seize pilot's plane over 6-pack of beer: "This case isn't just about me" - CBS News 1 week ago:
- Comment on How often is normal to masturbate? 2 weeks ago:
You might have a bit of a feedback loop going. Your body craves dopamine and gets it from being horny so when it need dopamine it also makes you horny.
I have adhd and i found my boy-clitoris way before my parents expected and somehow built a habit jacking off playing video games before I could even physically ejaculate. So now when I’m playing a game I still get the urge to stop and jack off simply cuz of how they got associated.
- Comment on How often is normal to masturbate? 2 weeks ago:
Do you have ADHD? If you do than you’re probably just chasing dopamine. Doesn’t mean you’re doing it an unhealthy amount, but if you’re doing it cuz you’re ‘bored’ not, ‘horny’ than that’s probably why.
Me personally it aches afterwards if I jack it too many times in one day. I don’t know about women. I imagine uterine walls can only handle so much dildo friction while clits can only handle so much vibrator.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
I’m talking to a guy at the bottom of a dogpile right now and there’s this weird other account that I apparently blocked in the past commenting and downvoting lol.
, I wonder if they can be taught to change that. I know brain elasticity is a thing, and people can learn new habits
So like I’d assume its similar to healing from any emotional trauma. Like I realized dating someone whose parents didnt teach them unconditional love meant that they viewed all love towards them as fundamentally conditional. Ultimately it takes someone capable of giving that love until they figure it out. Which isn’t me anymore.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
lol I had a guy make 4 alternates of my account on other instances to downvote me because he didn’t like what I said to “another user” (his alt).
On reddit I used to frequent a lot of IRL fight footage type subreddits and used to foolishly engage the comments and get dogpiled until I realized I was talking to people who’d never even gone to a bar much less seen a bar fight.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
IMO a big, post-internet, problem is that people aren’t experiencing foundational relationships as children/teens that were the learning experiences to prepare people deeper connections like marriage.
People are growing up without learning the ability to trust or discern trustworthiness; and many other things that we can only learn through experience.
As per Maslow’s Pyramid, everyone is overworked and suck in bottom tier survival mode rendering them psychologically incapable of prioritizing emotional and relationship needs. So we get people who see interpersonal situations in black and white with villains and hero’s instead of people.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
lmao I did not attack OP. Read back you’re being ridiculous.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
Read back. I wasn’t harsh until OP responded disingenuously.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
Would you be upset if someone told you that you don’t love your wife?
You? No. My father? yes.
The fact that you think I’m assuming things about your life shows that you’re reacting defensively instead of maturley considering what’s being presented to you.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
I provided you answers, you’re just not emotionally intelligent enough to recognize them.
Listen.
Don’t tell her.
For your sake.
Good luck. You, specifically, are gonna need it.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
To be clear, in this context NOT telling them would be the wrong decision. Very, different from OPs situation.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
K but I don’t need to know how they feel when by their own words I can see that they’re conflating attraction with love.
You seem to want to help OP. But you’re actually reenforcing a very unhealthy mindset. Give you admission that you don’t know what’s best here it is rather irresponsible of you to baselessly undermine the consensus.
Some of the people here are family men who actually do know what we’re talking about. To falsely equate your “I don’t know” with experience driven advice, is a disservice to OP.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
You’re self aware enough to ask the questions but lack the humility to accept the answers.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
I wonder what makes you think otherwise.
Life experience. You have lot of growing up to do.
- Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later? 2 weeks ago:
although I never loved anyone this much since.
Attraction /= love. You did not love her.
Yet all this time I had a desire to tell her about them.
You have a desire to have your attraction to her validated. You are essentially cat calling her but in ultra slow motion.
I would really want to cite some scientific study that “Over 80% of girls have their self-confidence lifted after being told they were secretly admired (p<0.05)”, but can’t find one.
Ya cuz in real life it would be “over 99% of women have experienced mental anguish from being told they were secretly admired.”
- Comment on Killing ownership is the method, killing the secondary market is the objective. 3 weeks ago:
I could see vote score being a valuable moderation tool on the backend.
- Comment on Killing ownership is the method, killing the secondary market is the objective. 3 weeks ago:
I honestly think every single platform that uses a vote score system is inherently vulnerable to becoming an echo chamber.
The only value a vote score generates is consensus. This is at the cost of influencing readers before they even engage the content. It lowers the bar of participation, partly by removing the necessity of commenting approval/disapproval, and secondarily by making approval/disapproval anonymous.
Ultimately it makes it easier for people to participate without actually contributing and that lowers the quality of the end result.
