oxysis
@oxysis@lemmy.blahaj.zone
- Comment on Why do females got to be so hard to talk or flirt with? 4 days ago:
Okay here’s some advice from a lesbian.
First, drop the word “female”, we are people not animals.
Second, money doesn’t matter to a lot of people, some women want their partner to provide for them, many do not want that. Women had to fight extremely hard to be able to work jobs, have bank accounts and have access to credit and debit cards. Financial independence can be an extremely big deal to people.
Third, try to not be super picky with who you want as a partner. It’s a bit of cliché advice but it’s one that is important to remember. Not every women is a super model, nor does everyone have the hourglass figure. Be okay with them not being perfect and try to accept them for who they are.
Fourth, really need to emphasize this here but be accepting of quirks and flaws. While this is very similar to the third thing, it is a bit different. Quite a few people who have flirted with me have had quite gross reactions to my quirks and flaws and it’s a big red flag.
Fifth, be patient with yourself. Make sure you are actually in a proper place mentally before tackling a relationship. A quick look through you post history shows you have some issues you are working on and I’d make sure you have them under good control.
Sixth, like others have said but work on getting good, healthy, stable friendships first. Friends can introduce you to people and who knows if you hit it off with them.
Seventh, don’t expect sex early on or at all. Some people love sex, others can be apathetic towards it and others can be adverse to it. If you aren’t sexually compatible that’s fine just be open about it and be willing to move on if sex matters a lot to you.
- Comment on Last Epoch developer Eleventh Hour Games gets acquired by KRAFTON 4 days ago:
Given what they are doing to the Subnautica 2 devs, cross it off and forget it ever existed
- Comment on I feel like it was on purpose 5 days ago:
Mhmm conservatism is a blight on humanity, nothing good will ever come of it. Every single time a conservative gets in power anywhere it always makes things worse. It is a fucking parasite that most be removed or else it will be the end of you. It denies progress, why do you think we constantly have to fight for basic human rights? Why do you think they want to go back to the 1950’s so badly? They hate that they can’t be openly racist, openly homophobic and openly transphobic. They want to drive everyone into having to play up to their ideals regardless of what you want.
- Comment on Gen Z's 'overemployed' solution for a broken economy: 5 jobs and $3K per day. It's totally legal 1 week ago:
You didn’t take the shit on his desk? What are you hiding by not shitting infront of him?
- Comment on ‘Subnautica 2’ Leaders Say Krafton Sabotaged Game Over Payout [new events in the Subnautica 2 story] 1 week ago:
The second I heard the heard the firings happens and the rumors behind why I removed the game from my wishlist. And as more slowly comes out it makes Krafton look worse and worse
- Comment on Young Americans Are Spending A Whole Lot Less On Video Games This Year 4 weeks ago:
Yeah no shit AAA games are $80 going forward, games from the past few years are $70 if AAA. $60 was the sweet spot for AAA games but then the greedy companies began littering paid games with macro transactions.
Indie is the way forward for gaming, the prices are actually fair and the devs are willing to support them far past when AAA companies will. That and modding for games has only been getting better and better. Last year we basically got a brand new Fallout game from modders, meanwhile Bugthesda can barely wipe their own ass.
- Comment on Fine Literature 5 weeks ago:
Hello tea for two heavy
- Comment on Happy PrIDE Month 1 month ago:
The second you get rid of them you are gonna need them
- Comment on Kinda fucked up tbh 1 month ago:
Deal
- Comment on Kinda fucked up tbh 1 month ago:
This planet ain’t big enough for the two of us.
- Comment on I knew it 2 months ago:
Or next to the many runaways her private jet takes off from every 15 minutes
- Comment on Comfy cozy 2 months ago:
I didn’t choose to be born here and wish I was born somewhere where I wasn’t constantly fearing for what tomorrow could bring. But since I was born here I have to figure out a way to navigate this shit show of a country till I can flee
- Comment on Breakup 2 months ago:
Hell yeah that bitch is gone!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
- Comment on American dad 2 months ago:
Uh double it and give it to the next person
- Comment on All weekend... 2 months ago:
I wanna be that dog cause that has to be the comfiest place
- Comment on This was spiritually revealed to me 2 months ago:
Missing a she/they phase but close enough
- Comment on BLOSS 2 months ago:
Nnnnoooooooooooooooooo!!!
- Comment on People Are Losing Loved Ones to AI-Fueled Spiritual Fantasies 2 months ago:
I’ve never thought of anyone supporting LLMs in any sort of positive light. The ethical questions behind the creation of the largest models alone should have been enough to kill the tech in the first place. Let alone the insane environmental impacts and how this tech has undo any slight progress we have made in slowing climate change.
We are so fucked as a society if we continue letting corporations run wild and unchecked like this for any longer.
- Comment on Is it time to stop? 2 months ago:
Dont want to think
- Comment on Shedeur Sanders Brutally Crushed On Social Media After NFL Draft Disaster 2 months ago:
Eh this draft class wasn’t a strong qb one, Cam Ward was obviously going to the Titans since they need a quarterback bad. But everyone else could afford to wait longer. The Giants trading back up into the first round didn’t shock me, neither did the Jaxson Dart pick as his draft stock was on the rise.
The Giants at pick 3 had a great pass rusher available to take. The Raiders were always going to take Ashton Jeanty unless someone jumped in-front of them for him. The Jets are just disfunctional and think Bustin Fields will finally jump to being average. Saints think either Carr or Rattler will be decent enough to tank with. Colts are still trying to make Richardson work. Steelers are still trying to get Rodgers to sign with them. Only other team who could’ve drafted him is the Browns who would’ve turned him into a bust or the Rams who would’ve sat him behind Stafford
- Comment on first post, nyaa~ 2 months ago:
A trans girl using Linux? No way!
- Comment on LIARS! 3 months ago:
The rats are just reincarnated people obviously
- Comment on \(゜o゜;)/ 3 months ago:
I feel bad for laughing at this as hard as I did
- Comment on just got this captcha 3 months ago:
Yeah what new lore dropped?
- Comment on Vizcacha 3 months ago:
Me too little buddy, me too