dandelion

@dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  and don’t roll over and let the semen drip into your vagina, because anal sex can still cause pregnancy if not careful

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Your name better be Caleb⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  sometimes people can be a great sexual partner, but poor relationship material, maybe it’s something like that?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Your name better be Caleb⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  why?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Your name better be Caleb⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  you can tell it’s not dudes she fucked because the scores are so high

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  pretty sure redditors who 1. have disproportionately been banned from reddit for some reason or another and 2. feel some sense of victimization and seeks anti-reddit solidarity on Lemmy are going to have significant overlap with incels and misogynists. Lemmy has overwhelming millennial tech bro vibes ime.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Sick young ants send out a 'kill me' scent to prevent deadly epidemics⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I’ve been sending off “kill me” scents my whole life; humans are as merciless as they are stupid.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨SipsTea⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  good job sweetie, I’m sure you’ll make an excellent bottom 😊

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why does American media (and to an extent the American public) seem to only focus on one issue at a time?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m not an expert in media or journalism, so don’t take me seriously, but my speculation is that because American corporate media is for-profit and competing for attention, when something is new and getting attention, everyone competes to grab as much of the attention that issue generates as possible, creating a fear of missing out for those who don’t try to monetize the new thing.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨SipsTea⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  google “bottoming”

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🔥🔥🔥⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  deliberately misinterpreting “fuck X” as articulating a sex-negative attitude is so non-serious and shows such bad-faith 🙄

  are you just upset that you didn’t have anything to offer, and this seemed clever to you?

  either way, I’m blocking you for your bad faith; I am happy to waste time engaging with serious people, but I have no time for your silliness

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🔥🔥🔥⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  fair enough; I tend to just click “reconnect” a few times, it usually only takes a couple tries

  but good point about not visiting reddit, lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🔥🔥🔥⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  btw, they don’t successfully block all VPN users; using mullvad you can just reconnect until you’re on a VPN server that isn’t blocked (in case you still want to access Reddit with a VPN)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🔥🔥🔥⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  hm, I hear you - but I think that would have to be embedded in the context of the meme; it’s not like anyone knows you are a “cocksucker” in a non-pejorative sense; homophobia is what makes the meme successful, and I don’t think anything changes from the fact that you happen to be creating or sharing it

  basically the homophobia is in the audience that interprets and receives the meme, the meme succeeds because it plays on that homophobia, and so the meme is “homophobic” in that sense

  I have trouble imagining these memes being shared and being popular gay communities I’m a part for that reason - the audience might find the implication that sucking cock is itself wrong as homophobic and uncomfortable

  it should be clarified that when I point out the homophobia, it’s not meant as some attempt to cancel the memes or indicate loyalty or protection to Trump, instead I’m just trying to point out reactionary threads that remain, the way misogyny and homophobia are common even in anti-Trump sentiment

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🔥🔥🔥⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  this is a premium comment, no notes

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🔥🔥🔥⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  to be blunt, I don’t believe you

  if you call someone a cocksucker, it’s obviously intended as an insult

  telling me actually you think sucking cock is totally fine and it’s actually just about the hypocrisy of the cocksucker is not believable - that’s not why these memes succeed, people are just enjoying labeling Donald Trump as a cocksucker in a pejorative way

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🔥🔥🔥⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Not every joke involving gays, are bashing at homosexuality.

  I do think jokes where the entire joke is that Donald Trump sucks dick is intended to be funny because homosexuality is taboo and sucking dick is considered bad, not just to Trump, but to people in general.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🔥🔥🔥⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  it’s too good not to be a joke 😅

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨🔥🔥🔥⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  still homophobic tho, conservatives are just the wrong people to be calling it out (and if anything conservatives are the ideal target audience for the homophobic memes, since they are the ones most likely to be bothered by their Daddy being a closeted gay)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I also notice I hate when something I love becomes too popular, precisely because it loses its initial associations with the group I was happy to associate with, and becomes associated with a larger group that I don’t feel connection with (or worse, becomes a toxic fan base I actively don’t want to be associated with - e.g. Rick and Morty, I love the show but developed shame for that once it became popular and its biggest fans created negative associations with liking the show).

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Not impressed⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  my mom started to dye her hair when I was a small child, and not joking - I’m still not over it … I really do hold onto things that long, and I’m beginning to wonder if I might be on the spectrum 😅

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  it’s associative, the negative associations with Call of Duty players cannot be transferred to a console that doesn’t support that game, so for people who want to avoid those associations it’s a plus

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Not impressed⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m mostly joking, but not getting over it so many years later is a symptom of autism, fyi

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Not impressed⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  autism has entered the chat

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨This one goes out to Dennis Prager⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Trump’s transgender mice 🤭

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Goddamn it, Gary⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  cannabis finally helped me grok the Kline bottle, took a lot of visualizing and mental exploration but I got there

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Samsung brings ads to US fridges⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  it’s an honor to be your first upvote 🫡

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I have a “security blanket” too, but it’s a pillow I was given as a small child.

  I’ve also felt ashamed for sleeping with it, it feels like it makes me infantile or not grown up, so I put it in a closet for many years. The past year or two, though, I’ve realized the comfort is more important to me than feeling ashamed, so I sleep with the pillow every night, usually I hug the pillow and sleep with it against me. It’s one of the few such comforts, and nothing else comforts me like it - even other pillows or plushes I have tried.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Use this science wisely.⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  clit.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Out of 10. Be specific!⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I am particular about forks and spoons, preferring they are thin and relatively straight - this fork looks too thick, but I don’t mind how narrow it is

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨what are the grievances with the "male loneliness epidemic"?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I had to scroll too far to find this answer.

  Most of the criticism of it I’ve seen is about how the concept’s been warped to mean women aren’t putting out enough for specific men.

  this is it in a nutshell. Men clearly experience loneliness, what’s problematic is the way “male loneliness” has been weaponized against women, as if it’s not a byproduct of patriarchy but actually a result of women’s neglect (or worse, an insidious assumption that women have an obligation to date men because they are lonely).