dandelion

@dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨what are in you're top 3 favourite games of all time?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  fistful of frags is strangely addictive, what weapon do you main?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨what are in you're top 3 favourite games of all time?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  took too much scrolling to find AOE 2

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Florida ounces⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  thank you, so helpful! I had made it to the themes but was confused by the options and didn’t think to scroll 😄

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Florida ounces⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  where do you find that setting?

  I’m also on Adroid, here’s what it looks like for me:

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it normal for young teenagers to snore ?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  because qualifying someone’s gender like that can be dehumanizing …

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Is it normal for young teenagers to snore ?⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  why specify MtF in this context, the girlfriend is just F, that doesn’t really require qualifying does it?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I ain't got no time to maintain some stupid little plastic bread clip. I got a landlord to feed.⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  are you describing a grocery store?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨robot slurs⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Makes sense to me⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  so the solution to misogyny is to git gud?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dandelion cannon⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  🤢🤢🤢

  you need to teach your kids about consent

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dandelion cannon⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  right, but when pedantically correcting the idea that pollen isn’t an example of dimorphic reproduction, making gross generalizations like that seems strangely out of place, since the whole issue they took in the first place was a (mostly true / appropriate) generalization …

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dandelion cannon⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  ok, but just so you know, I did not consent

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dandelion cannon⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  also, pollen contains the male gametes I thought - how is that not dimorphic? Plants vary in their sexual strategies, but I do think it’s fair to think of pollen as containers of semen or sperm … or at least that’s always how it’s been presented anyway 🤷‍♀️

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Dandelion cannon⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  haha <shuffles nervously>

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Horny🧠⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  There are a few clarifications I would like to make:

  Having an erection does not require the person to have sex, and is not the same as being horny or desiring sex.

  Having a penis does not guarantee you have erections (let alone involuntary erections, which is what you seem to be talking about). People with penises who are testosterone dominant do have involuntary erections, but even so, see my first point for why that’s not relevant.

  Your claim was about being horny being a bigger problem for people with penises, which is a fair assumption but has more to do with testosterone than the penis (like you’ve pointed out, trans men can be very horny without a “penis” - though it should be noted here that male and female genitalia are more similar than dissimilar and have the same structures of a phallus and glans, just in different configurations).

  so it’s already suggesting that it’s not a myth.

  The myth is the belief that men are horny while women are not, the reality is that it varies significantly by person. with significant overlap between the sexes. There is a difference on average, but it’s not as large or total as people commonly believe.

  And finally, as you have pointed out the social context will skew the data significantly with fewer women being comfortable with sex than men, fewer women having learned to masturbate than men, and fewer women willing to discuss or disclose their sexual feelings or behavior than men. These differences in how sex is treated socially means whatever biological differences there are is muddled, especially when what was measured was self-reporting on frequency of masturbation. It’s possible that men and women are far more similar than dissimilar than even the current evidence we have points to.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Horny🧠⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  that’s a common belief, but it varies a lot by individual, with many women having higher sex drives than men

  psychologytoday.com/…/do-men-really-have-stronger…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨sardonic soup⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  we already have thornless blackberry varieties…

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨UwU brat mathematician behavior⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  fake and gay?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon likes a thing⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  they really did do a great job replacing the voice actor

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon likes a thing⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I assume they mean Justin Roiland being found out as a sexual predator of underage girls …

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How does one become a clown?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I was clowning with you 😉

  “you can’t be serious” being a literal (joking) instruction on how to become a clown, while also making it look like I was questioning your dedication 😄

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How does one become a clown?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  you can’t be serious

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨We'd like to welcome our newest Student to Hogwarts, Hun-Gary Mc'Spud.⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  literally came to comments to say Sirona Ryan, lol

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Enough is enough⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  In the film there is a villain character named Buffalo Bill who murders young women and harvests their skin to make a woman suit they can wear to become a woman after being rejected by gender-affirming clinics for being mentally unstable.

  There is a famous scene where Buffalo Bill has abducted a woman and keeps her in a well, and a basket with lotion is sent down and Buffalo Bill says a now famous line: “It rubs lotion on its skin, or else it gets the hose again.” This is a threat if she doesn’t moisturize and take care of her skin, since that’s what is intended to be harvested from her.

  There’s another iconic scene when Buffalo Bill is putting on makeup and jewelry and in the mirror saying “Would you fuck me? … I would fuck me. I would fuck me. I would fuck me so hard.”

  This is perhaps one of the biggest and most impactful instances of transphobia in film, and served as an anchor in the 1990s for how people thought about trans women, as deranged psychopathic perverts (similar to how at the time all gay men were believed to be pedophile rapists).

  There were even protests held against the film at the time.

  Since OP’s post is about lotion and criminality, my assumption is that some Silence of the Lambs joke is inevitable, so I thought I’d get ahead of it.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Wanna show me? Send a DM⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m sure a cock champion can be found on Tinder with minimal effort.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Enough is enough⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  oof

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Enough is enough⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  something something transphobic Silence of the Lambs joke

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  ^ketamine^

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I don't get this trend, but there's a moth on my ceiling. Enjoy !⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Möth craves your lööps

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Peak male form⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  thank you