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You are pretty much asking why the definition of a word has to be how it is defined.
Submitted 13 hours ago by gardening_association@lemmy.world to [deleted]
You are pretty much asking why the definition of a word has to be how it is defined.
So ‘incel’ basically means a guy who’s into femdom?
They feel they are powerless to ‘attract a mate’. With this stance they put all the power on other, hence the bias you’re experiencing (if this is real and not just a shitpost).
Incel is an identity of self-loathing. If youre actually seeking out such a person without all that baggage, I’d drop the “incel” word from your messaging entirely. I say this as someone whose interests brushed against that community from the very beginning
LOL
hypnicjerk@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
idk about the overlap with incel culture, but any amount of time in online kink spaces should make it obvious that there is a massive explosion of submissive men seeking partners and not nearly enough dominant women to meet demand.
it’s not really representative of overall demographics, basically survivorship bias at work.