AskewLord
@AskewLord@piefed.social
a big gay heterosexual trans-cis ladyguy
- Comment on Why does neuro divergent only mean Autistic and ADHD? 1 day ago:
It’s called being a normal person. Everyone is more sensitive to friends and family than random strangers….
This obsessive need to pathologize ordinary life expereinces is counter-productive to everyone. You’re not special, you’re just boring and average.
Way too many online weirdos basically want to be mentally ill, because it gives them something to blame that isn’t themselves.
- Comment on Why does neuro divergent only mean Autistic and ADHD? 1 day ago:
it doesn’t, but that’s how internet weirdos use it almost exclusively because they are circle jerking about their self-diagnoses mostly.
- Comment on What should I do if my girlfriend doesn’t listen? 2 days ago:
This person does not care about you. A lot of people in relationships don’t care about their partners.
- Comment on Do rich people only wear designer clothes? Like, every piece? 4 days ago:
Right, so she’s an idiot for not investing in the slave trade or something now?
I’m blocking you because you’re so incredibly wrong and demonistration an absurd amount of ignorance about how finances work.
- Comment on Do rich people only wear designer clothes? Like, every piece? 5 days ago:
You know nothing about money. You sound like someone would sell their house to buy a Ferrari and wonder why they are broke a few years later.
Asset value appreciation is not income. You seem to be under a total delusion she is making 2 million in cash a year. She isn’t. They make like 500K in income, and after taxes it’s like 300K. Doctors make more than her and her husband do. Do you think a doctor chartering flights?
You are talking about people who have $500 million in assets.
- Comment on Do rich people only wear designer clothes? Like, every piece? 6 days ago:
Would you regard a 1950s run down shack of a house as opulent?
Those cost 3 million dollars where my sister lives.
- Comment on How I have better social interactions? 6 days ago:
Not literally, but metaphorically, yes. People where I live think a 150K salary is poverty and that you can’t possibly have a decent life if you don’t own a Porsche and have three homes.
- Comment on How I have better social interactions? 6 days ago:
Yeah, it’s me. I’m not interested in the shit they are interested in, and I don’t empathize with their self-inflected misery that makes up the bulk of their conversational topics.
- Comment on Do chickens get seasick? 6 days ago:
chickens can’t vomit.
- Comment on How I have better social interactions? 1 week ago:
Depends on your standards.
- Comment on Do rich people only wear designer clothes? Like, every piece? 1 week ago:
It’s not. Chartering a 3 hour flight costs $50K. She flies business class and pays like $5K.
You’re an order of magnitude off.
- Comment on How I have better social interactions? 1 week ago:
yeah but people liking you doesn’t mean you will like them.
being good at socializing isn’t the same as having socialization you find worthwhile or fulfilling.
- Comment on How I have better social interactions? 1 week ago:
play pretend.
seriously. stop being you, be someone else. look at how other people interact and pretend to be like that.
it works.
- Comment on Do rich people only wear designer clothes? Like, every piece? 1 week ago:
rich people aren’t all the same. some do, some don’t.
what’s weirder is the poor people who do this, and go into debt to do so, so they can feel/look rich.
my sister has a net worth of something like 50 million, and shops at Target and doesn’t have designer anything. but she grew up poor and isn’t into fashion or luxury goods. but she would not consider herself rich at all. to her rich is people who have yachts or charter flights.
- Comment on Do kids these days ever have a "porn fairy" moment? 2 weeks ago:
No.
Kid these days don’t find porn exciting because it’s not forbidden or difficult to obtain. It’s always available at any moment, which kills the taboo allure of it.
- Comment on Do kids these days ever have a "porn fairy" moment? 2 weeks ago:
you find a nudie mag in the trash.
- Comment on Does anyone actually believe this "rogue AI" nonsense? 3 weeks ago:
people would rather believe an exciting lie than a boring truth.
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
discriminatory law is not about individuals actions, it’s about institutional ones.
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
nothing has to be perfect. it just has to work sufficiently well.
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
beaus some people such intense idealists and they don’t think biology should exist because they find it political or socially upsetting.
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
Intersex people don’t exist in statistically relevant numbers.
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
Yes, but poliitcally it’s convenient to argue that gender is oppressive, or essential or something.
What’s ironic to me is the ‘anti gender’ people are the one who are the most obsessed with it and go around policing every else’s gender identity and their language use about it.
Like, if you want to be liberated from gender, why don’t you liberate yourself first?
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
Because the concept that biological sex doesn’t exist keeps getting pushed by folks, and it’s simple not true apart from fringe circumstances.
despite 99.1% of the population not being trans, and 99.998% of it not being hermaphrodites.
it’s a totally insane position and I’m sick of it being normalized. But then again this place is full of people who think China will liberate them from their oppression by capitalism, but they are also incorrect and not living in reality.
Way too many folks seem to want to take the perspective of schziophrenic and argue we should all be like that, rather than we should treat the schiophrenic so they don’t suffer from schziophrenia. And will scream at you that you’re evil and wrong for not wanting everyone to become schiophrenic.
What’s weird is IRL, I have never me trans person who argues everyone needs to be trans or gender/sex needs to be abolished to ‘liberate’ us from it or something. Seems to be mostly a position of delusional people online, and it’s utterly bizarre.
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
because you can’t change you biological hair color
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
because that’s not how people work.
you are arguing form an impossible ideal.
you yourself incessantly discriminate people based on their appearances. the point is to prevent people from those discriminations institutionally.
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
that’s why you can have your sex legally changed
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
oh right, let me just re-produce asexually.
i totally forgot that human beings are capable of asexual reproduction!
- Comment on Why do we need legal genders at all? 3 weeks ago:
because they aren’t legal genders.
they are sex.
- Comment on Advice for moving to NY? 3 weeks ago:
they won’t be able to afford anything other than Buffalo on a retail salary.
- Comment on Advice for moving to NY? 3 weeks ago:
Don’t.
NY has a bad economy and awful tax burden.