Rejection

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• PunnyName@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Don’t buy a ring for engagement unless you know for sure that they a) want an engagement ring, and b) are 100% gonna say yes.

  Marriage shouldn’t be a surprise.

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  • FlihpFlorp@lemm.ee ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Me and my my girlfriend are of the mind where (once our relationship is that far) there’s gonna be a long talk about marriage, like if we’re ready, what changes are being made once that happens, a lot of discussion. We also agree once that discussion has been settled there can still be the romantic gesture of popping the question

    I just never understood how people are able to go

    “I’m putting you on the spot would you make a life changing decision that will alter both our lives or will you break my heart, go ahead infront of all these people”

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  • Maalus@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Marriage isn’t a surprise but the engagement can be.

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    • SARGE@startrek.website ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Neither the question nor the answer should ever be a surprise.

      The time, and location of proposal are the surprise.

      When I asked my now wife, I knew for sure she was going to say yes, and I knew she would want a simple ring with her birth stone instead of a diamond.

      She had no idea I was going to ask her in the manner I did while we were out camping. that was the surprise for her. Not the question itself.

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    • Maggoty@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Nope. If the question was a surprise then your communication skills as a couple aren’t there yet.

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    • PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      The moment it becomes official is the surprise, ths actual context of it cannot ever be one.

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    • PunnyName@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Engagement is the initiation of marriage, they are the same. So your sentence doesn’t make sense

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• ummthatguy@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  No mustard/sauerkraut or chili/cheese, I can see why.

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  • 9point6@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Was gonna say, plain hotdog even for a proposal?

    Does this guy even have the concept of what a bad hotdog might be?

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    • DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      He likes the pure taste of juicy meat tubes.

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• proper@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  dodged a bullet, King

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• einlander@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  You proposed with a broken weiner without enough girth to fill the hole?

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