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Submitted ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨realitista@lemmy.world⁩ to ⁨[deleted]⁩

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  • CIWS-30@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I was like that when I was young. Now all my plans involve me forcing myself to do 1 or 2 productive things a day besides the stuff I have to do, and then just calling it a day and pushing aside the rest of the stuff I probably should do till tomorrow. Or more realistically, the next weekend or holiday.

    I don't lie to myself anymore, I just admit that if it's not 100% vital, it won't get done quick, if at all.

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    • BURN@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Mid 20s here, this is what I’ve ended up at too. I prioritize how much each thing needs to be done and then force myself through 1-2, sometimes even 3 as early in the morning as I can. Otherwise it doesn’t get done

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      • xpinchx@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Maybe just a quick game of overwatch first.

        …12 hours later

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    • ExclamatoryProdundity@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Commenting so I can upvote your comment because Memmy covers up the button. Here’s hoping we all become our best selves. Even Memmy.

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      • Num10ck@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        i suggest that its time for you to try voyager.

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    • Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      That and halfassing are totally valid ways of getting shit done. Halfassing is better than nothing on almost everything.

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  • FlickOfTheBean@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I’ve found the closest thing to a panacea for this is a mixture of willingness to fail and self forgiveness for falling off the horse. Everyday is a new opportunity to get back on it. And if you’re not feeling it today, it’s generally ok to just wait until tomorrow (this works for me because I have to be very gentle to myself sometimes, idk if this part will work for everyone. You kind of have to [or at least, I have to] address all the other potential issues, like anxiety or depression, before the motivation to do stuff follows).

    Idk why I’m posting this on a shitpost, but if it helps even one person, seems like it’s worth posting.

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    • h3mlocke@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      🙏

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  • Puffymumpkins@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    This is why I am so grateful for my gf. I have no motivation and need someone to push me forward in life, she’s a workaholic and needs someone to help her slow down and relax. We really balance each other out

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  • dangblingus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Then you need to try habit stacking. Add 1 thing to your routine a month. 28 days to form a habit, so don’t bite off an entire new lifestyle, CREATE the lifestyle over a year.

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    • Chadus_Maximus@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Worked extremely well until I had to change jobs. The house of cards instantly collapsed :(

      The same thing happened during the pandemic, too. Just have to accept that at some point it all comes crashing down.

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      • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        I learned to ride that wave. It’s kind of fun.

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    • SoleInvictus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      I never heard of this but looked it up because of your comment. I like it!

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      • dangblingus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Worked for me! Got me from alcoholic party dude with nothing going on to college graduate who has a relatively decent/stable income and now I can actually plan fun things to do instead of just look for the night’s drinking buddy. You never stop growing/learning so just keep at it!

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  • syfrix@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I like how they got a checkmark next to “Axe Murder”, as if they were somehow able to prove that.

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  • mojo@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Shit, will it ever happen?

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    • sci@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      surely tomorrow

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      • BarrelAgedBoredom@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        I have it on good authority that it will infact be tomorrow

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      • mojo@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        well if you fall down, you have no choice to just get back up and try again

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  • vzq@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Amanda Fucking Palmer had a song about that. I love it.

    youtu.be/Q9WZtxRWieM

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  • Agamemnon@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Actually a Moodpost. Only the username is a little sus.

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    • Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      One day she'll finally get the mental energy to use that axe and then we'll all be in danger.

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