I’m kind of sad that you haven’t changed enough to be incompatible with that person. The people I was into at 22 are not the people I am into now.
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wisely@feddit.org 1 month ago[deleted]
AbsoluteChicagoDog@lemm.ee 1 month ago
BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
Maybe they just found a partner who evolved like themself? It doesn’t become a shitty choice for OP, just because you couldn’t imagine it working for you. It would be a shitty choice for OP if it didn’t work for OP
gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 1 month ago
way to respect other people’s choices, man.
AbsoluteChicagoDog@lemm.ee 1 month ago
I respect their right to make that choice, even if it’s a shitty choice. And that’s more important.
gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 1 month ago
true words though
Liz@midwest.social 1 month ago
Or each person has evolved in concert…
theonlytruescotsman@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
I meant more the other direction. Marrying anyone under 30 is crazy. I’m glad it worked out for you but 22 year olds are children that sometimes get blackout drunk for fun. I remember myself and my dating age cohort at 22, any of us making any permanent decision is kinda crazy.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
Speak for yourself, I was pretty responsible by 22-ish and got married around then. I’m still happily married.
theonlytruescotsman@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
Good for you little buddy, your brain wasn’t done and you were uneducated and severely underexperienced in all things but you picked the right choice. Congrats. Sometimes chicken entrails predict the weather, more often than chance even. That doesn’t mean meteorologists are at risk of bird flu.
Poem_for_your_sprog@lemmy.world 1 month ago
You sound lonely
Alpha71@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Heh. Tell me your from Utah without telling me you’re from Utah.