Maybe they just found a partner who evolved like themself? It doesn’t become a shitty choice for OP, just because you couldn’t imagine it working for you. It would be a shitty choice for OP if it didn’t work for OP
I meant more the other direction. Marrying anyone under 30 is crazy. I’m glad it worked out for you but 22 year olds are children that sometimes get blackout drunk for fun. I remember myself and my dating age cohort at 22, any of us making any permanent decision is kinda crazy.
theonlytruescotsman@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
So much.
wisely@feddit.org 3 months ago
Alpha71@lemmy.world 3 months ago
Heh. Tell me your from Utah without telling me you’re from Utah.
AbsoluteChicagoDog@lemm.ee 3 months ago
I’m kind of sad that you haven’t changed enough to be incompatible with that person. The people I was into at 22 are not the people I am into now.
BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
Maybe they just found a partner who evolved like themself? It doesn’t become a shitty choice for OP, just because you couldn’t imagine it working for you. It would be a shitty choice for OP if it didn’t work for OP
gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 3 months ago
way to respect other people’s choices, man.
Liz@midwest.social 3 months ago
Or each person has evolved in concert…
theonlytruescotsman@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
I meant more the other direction. Marrying anyone under 30 is crazy. I’m glad it worked out for you but 22 year olds are children that sometimes get blackout drunk for fun. I remember myself and my dating age cohort at 22, any of us making any permanent decision is kinda crazy.
sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
Speak for yourself, I was pretty responsible by 22-ish and got married around then. I’m still happily married.
festnt@sh.itjust.works 3 months ago
thanks for the explanation.