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It could also just be women thinking, “I’d like to visit _____ when I’m able, I want my partner to go with me.” Working in a passport office, I’ve met a shocking number of men who have never left the US (or sometimes even the state) by choice. Then their wife or girlfriend wants to go to Mexico or something, and they come in talking about how they’re only doing it for her and they’d never travel if it was up to them.

Anyway, I’d consider traveling one of my hobbies even though I can’t afford to do it often - plenty of time is spent planning and looking at things to do, so it goes beyond just the few days of the trip.

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ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
I think so too.

I’ve met people who are extremely happy living in their small town life doing small town things, then get angry or confused why anybody would want to go someplace “exotic”.

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- Aceticon@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  Maybe “travelling as a hobby” as a women’s preference with regards to men is really just about it being correlated to a man’s openness and ability to deal with totally different environments.
  
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  - ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
    Ah it’s a yellow flag! Boys, we’re cracking the women code!
    
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BoxOfFeet@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
I’m one of those people. I’ve never flown, rarely leave my state. My wife wants to travel, but we haven’t yet. I, personally, have no interest in it. Just like sports and most popular movie franchises. I just have no feelings about it at all. It seems like a huge hassle.

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- lightnsfw@reddthat.com ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  Yea same. New places, new people, and trying to figure out where I’m going stress me the fuck out. A vacation is just a whole week of that. No thanks. I want to use my time off to relax. If someone else wants to plan the whole thing and I just follow them around it’s fine but I don’t want to deal with that shit myself. It’s not enjoyable to me at all.
  
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- frickineh@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
  I don’t think there’s necessarily anything wrong with that, it’s just not going to be compatible with everyone. I would never date anyone who didn’t prioritize travel at least a little, but that’s definitely not universal.
  
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