Comment on Anon meets up with a girl

• qyron@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I only use euphemistics if there is an established relation and consent to it.

  At some point in my life I was with someone that had a kink for being called by terms I consider demeaning towards any human being, so I openly refused to do so and explained why I did it. The relationship ended shortly after.

  Because I see sex in a couple dynamic as a corner stone for a healthy relationship, I always strived to be open about talking regarding limits, dos and donts. I like enjoying myself before, while and after being with my partner and making sure my partner does as well and laughing and goofing around is an integral part of it.

  So, if there is mutual trust to throw around some silly dirty talk, yes, to answer your question, I would.

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  • Shortstack@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I just want you to know that your comment wasn’t blatantly disrespected at least by this internet stranger.

    It’s a thoughtful reply to some asshat that was asking you questions in bad faith, he was not open to a different point of view from the outset.

    And also that’s pretty awesome stance to take. I wish more folks were this mature about their relationships

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    • qyron@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      If somehow letting out all of that vitriole helped that person in feeling relieved and with their views asserted, good for them.

      I sleep at ease with my conscience, as I didn’t insulted them, regardless of what they felt or thought.

      Thank you for your kind words.

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  • Aksamit@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    How is ‘pork’ an acceptable term for sex though? The euphemism you are implying with it is literally to ‘fuck a piece of meat’. And pig meat at that.

    This is not a cute or light hearted thing to imply when talking about sex. ‘Fuck’ is far less offensive a term for sex than ‘pork’.

    But sure, whatever, if the women you fuck do want sex with them to be spoken about like you’re sticking your dick in pieces of pig meat, then by all means.

    Just understand that it is disgusting and degrading to speak about sex this way publicly and you should really be more called out on it.

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    • detectivesniffles@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      this is such a grossly uncharitable interpretation you can not be serious right now

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    • qyron@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      After that outing, that I sincerely hope has made your peace, I consider myself as such.

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    • FarmTaco@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      “This is how I see how. so it is how it is for everyone.

      So it is written, so shall it be”

      Ramses, or Aksamit?

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