Comment on Anon has a discord gf
webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 4 weeks ago
I have been to vr chat and its scary how quickly vr blends the lines of reality.
At what point does it stop being a video game and does it become a form of internet porn.
At what point does it ceases to be internet porn and does It become a relationship?
Many vulnerable people find their way to these places and we need more awareness about predators.
People in relationships need to become aware of these dynamics and at some point set boundaries as a couple.
On the flipside there are people who need cuddles but cannot stand physical contact… from that perspective vr becomes a medical device.
In addition to what you’re saying (as I fully agree with it):
Even when both sides are being honest, relationships that work at distance don’t necessarily work IRL. It’s hard to deeply know someone through the internet, even with VR; and in this sort of situation we tend to fill the gaps with idealised crap, instead of reality. Then as you meet the person IRL you discover that they aren’t anything remotely similar to what you hoped for.
What I have to say is anecdotal evidence.
I met my wife in an mmo and the first 2 years of our relationship were online. After 3 years I moved to live near her. We have been together for about 18 or 19 years now so if you actually communicate it can work.
Yup, with a LD relationship like that, you have to fill in a lot of blanks about someone that you can’t determine - how are they in the morning? Do they pick up after themselves? Do they have any gross habits? There’s tonnes of little things that are entirely irrelevant in a remote setting but can really make a difference in person.
And naturally when you fill in those blanks, you tend to only fill them in with positives or you just don’t think about all those little things.
Blackmist@feddit.uk 4 weeks ago
I think vc is voice chat in this post.
webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 4 weeks ago
Vr chat is full of cuddle rooms though.
Its Infinite theoretical digital spaces in the form off many small rooms crowded with anime characters sleeping on the floor, quite a sight.
booly@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
It’s definitely Viet Cong.
veroxii@aussie.zone 4 weeks ago
I read it as video chat. But yeah you could be right.
Damage@slrpnk.net 4 weeks ago
He’s kissing the mic, not the screen or camera