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• Diddlydee@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

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  • ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I think you’re being a bit unfair there. These attitudes often stem from their inability to form relationships. The struggle came first, and the resentment followed. They aren’t without sex and relationships because they’re inherently hateful people; rather, the hatred emerges from prolonged frustration and rejection.

    In most cases, I believe the inability to get into relationships is less about character and more about factors like social awkwardness, lack of friends, poor hygiene, unfortunate genetics, spending too much time online or gaming, etc.

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    • WolfLink@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      is less about character and more about factors like social awkwardness, lack of friends, poor hygiene, unfortunate genetics, spending too much time online or gaming, etc

      The struggle to form relationships comes from issues like what you mentioned here, which are mostly things that are a part of your character. The incel logic is circular.

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    • spankmonkey@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      These attitudes often stem from their inability to form relationships.

      Because of how they think making them have awful personalities.

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• spankmonkey@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Nobody is celibate against their will. They might have difficulty getting into relationships, but they are also choosing not to use the services of sex workers.

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  • ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I don’t think that’s fair. It’s not just sex they are after; they want a relationship but are unable to get into one.

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    • richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      A relationship defined in their own learned psychopathic terms.

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      • ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Your typical incel is that quiet guy in school with bad skin, plain clothes, and oily hair, whose only friends were the other outcasts. Like everyone else, they just wanted a normal relationship with a normal woman. It’s the repeated failure to form those relationships that leads to the resentment and anger we now see. They weren’t always like that. The bitterness and hatred is a coping mechanism for their situation, not the cause of it.

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  • lud@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    That’s illegal though.

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    • spankmonkey@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      It is not illegal everywhere.

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