Comment on What does "blackpilled" mean?

• ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Depends of which definition you go by, I guess. I prefer the literal meaning of the word; involuntary celibate. A person who is celibate against their own will.

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  • Diddlydee@feddit.uk ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

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    • ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I think you’re being a bit unfair there. These attitudes often stem from their inability to form relationships. The struggle came first, and the resentment followed. They aren’t without sex and relationships because they’re inherently hateful people; rather, the hatred emerges from prolonged frustration and rejection.

      In most cases, I believe the inability to get into relationships is less about character and more about factors like social awkwardness, lack of friends, poor hygiene, unfortunate genetics, spending too much time online or gaming, etc.

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      • WolfLink@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        is less about character and more about factors like social awkwardness, lack of friends, poor hygiene, unfortunate genetics, spending too much time online or gaming, etc

        The struggle to form relationships comes from issues like what you mentioned here, which are mostly things that are a part of your character. The incel logic is circular.

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      • spankmonkey@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        These attitudes often stem from their inability to form relationships.

        Because of how they think making them have awful personalities.

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  • spankmonkey@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Nobody is celibate against their will. They might have difficulty getting into relationships, but they are also choosing not to use the services of sex workers.

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    • ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I don’t think that’s fair. It’s not just sex they are after; they want a relationship but are unable to get into one.

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      • richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        A relationship defined in their own learned psychopathic terms.

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    • lud@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      That’s illegal though.

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      • spankmonkey@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        It is not illegal everywhere.

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• WhyFlip@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  The term, “involuntarily celibate” is not about how someone thinks, hence the “involuntary” portion of the phrase.

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