Honestly same, it’s not like you have to go digging for it, or like it’s different for every woman. It’s right there.
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pyre@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
i understand that there’s not enough education about the clitoris and the importance of it in sex but the way people talk about it like it’s the g-spot gas always made me question what they mean by “finding” it. like, it’s right there.
kyle@lemm.ee 4 weeks ago
feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
G-spot is very different between women, in the sense that some don’t seem to get much from it and some forget who they are or the concept of language. And honestly I was with a girl once who, I swear on my life, basically didn’t have a clitoris. And I really confirmed this in gynaecological detail. You will think I’m an idiot or something, but it just kind of wasn’t there, and after much effort, the equivalent nerve endings were slightly off to the left and below the surface. We’re talking a target size less than the head of a dressmaker’s pin. I will swear on my life this is true, because through dogged persistence that surprised both of it, I did manage to give her an orgasm. But it was the most challenging orgasm that a tongue has ever coaxed forth. That’s all.
LustyArgonianMana@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
I had a vch piercing and men still couldn’t find my clit
pyre@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
i honestly think it might be the result of all this talk about finding it. maybe people don’t find it because they think it’s hard to find. idk. still, public sex education is a must.
Zink@programming.dev 4 weeks ago
Like so many things in life, actually giving a shit and genuinely trying gets you like 80% of the way there.
And assuming you do actually care, you can’t see communication as a weakness.