Friends should build you up, not tear you down.
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Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 5 months agoI recently got a new job and my friend knows how much I make. Ever since they have been complaining how they hate their job and how they are under paying them. They constantly tell me how much of a slob I am and that I don’t do enough. Then they talk about how they need a new job and how they told their employeer they need to pay them more. It’s consuming my life.
partial_accumen@lemmy.world 5 months ago
boletus@sh.itjust.works 5 months ago
You need to tell your friend that you don’t appreciate this behaviour, and perhaps make some new friends. It’s also not your fault or responsibility if you’re in a better situation than someone else, but if you can help bring other people up that’s good.
Solumbran@lemmy.world 5 months ago
“Friend”
Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 5 months ago
I swear to god
folkrav@lemmy.ca 5 months ago
You may consider them a friend, but the behaviour you’re describing shows they aren’t treating you like one.