Solumbran
@Solumbran@lemmy.world
- Comment on Do you also feel cringe about people making such a big deal about ethnicity? 9 hours ago:
Well, american culture making such a big deal about ethnicity even when “positive” did influence a lot.
I never understood why the N word is racist because of history, but then being black makes it fine to say. It’s still linked to a racist background, but it seems like americans consider that minorities can never be or do anything racist.
And I mean, in 99% of cases the concept of ethnicity is (or at least is used in a way that is) purely racist. Apart from a few studies on genetic specificities, it has no purpose at all, and definitely no purpose in daily lives and governments.
What’s weird is that no one with a sane mind would say that a woman saying “women are bitches and shouldn’t be able to work” isn’t misogynistic, but when it comes to racism people are making up exceptions left and right.
If you focus on ethnicity, chances are you are racist, no matter the justification you put behind it.
- Comment on [deleted] 5 days ago:
Of course it has to be linked to the country, because you can’t try to make the world better if it’s not about your country
- Comment on Would you consider me a “dry texter”? 5 days ago:
Just imagine someone like you talking with you. How does it work?
I can’t even imagine that it would last more than two messages. It’s not a conversation if only one person is talking.
- Comment on Are mood problems a “turn off” for people even when they’re hard to manage? 5 days ago:
Seeking help is definitely the way to go as others have pointed out.
If you don’t care about others feeling hurt, well then just think about it rationally: you probably don’t like getting hurt, so you can understand that they don’t either and trying not to hurt others generally makes the world easier for everyone.
Now I would also say that aside of that, you should apologize to people you hurt. Not specifically expecting them to forgive you, but because it also logically makes more sense as it might make them feel less bad about your behaviour.
I would overall try to think about things more rationally than emotionally because it does look like your emotions are your main source of problem right now, and for example thinking that hurting people is going to make them improve is absurd.
And thinking rationally would let you realize what behaviors are not okay, and let you apologize/warn people about it even if you fail to control yourself. While people would still completely be entitled to distancing themselves from you if your behaviour hurts them, it might at least give them some insight that allows them to get less hurt. And once again, less hurt is generally positive.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
France supports pedos and rapists openly so not the brightest example.
- Comment on Like Elon Musk, 1 in 3 bosses admit they are pushing RTO because they're so upset about wasting money on all those empty desks 2 months ago:
Are you really suggesting that you expect CEOs to be competent? Scamming people and exploiting workers doesn’t require skills, except if immorality is one.
- Comment on what's the best way to react if a guy stares at you like he wants to have sex with you when you're doing yoga? 2 months ago:
Ignoring predators, a good idea
- Comment on How far away are we from someone using AI to create an animated TV show by themselves. 3 months ago:
As far as we are from the death of art I guess.
- Comment on Are disabled people and the elderly going to survive another Trump presidency? 3 months ago:
You did, and if it wasn’t intentional then you’re the one needing a better education. Actually, this is probably so basic that it’s not usually taught.
- Comment on Are disabled people and the elderly going to survive another Trump presidency? 3 months ago:
Ah yes sorry, you said that Trump was actually less or equal of a threat for survival than Harris.
“If it was possible with A, then it is possible with B” implies that B is less restrictive than A. Which in this case means that you said that surviving Harris is more/as hard as surviving Trump.
You can’t do the “it’s not what I said, calm down bro” lie on a written conversation.
- Comment on Are disabled people and the elderly going to survive another Trump presidency? 3 months ago:
A guy who wants the death of many people and goes more and more insane/senile being put at the head of a country after multiple comments admitting that he’d like to form a dictatorship is, for you, the same as an averagely crappy politician being elected?
At Hitler’s election would you have said “heh, minorities had it hard before, but they’ll survive” too?
- Comment on Are disabled people and the elderly going to survive another Trump presidency? 3 months ago:
What a stupid comment.
- Comment on How is it that "protecting basic democracy and the rule of law, and not crowning a criminal dictator" wasn't even on the chart?! 3 months ago:
Let’s give them leftist fascism and see how they react.
- Comment on Meet the Star Trek: Section 31 Crew 3 months ago:
This is incredibly pathetic and badly written, if sounds like a 14-years old fanfiction. So I guess people who liked the episodes about section 31 will like this.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
Ah, amazing, one of the worst parts of the franchise brought into a movie, what’s not to love
- Comment on what's stops one from scavenging the best parts of old phones and putting them into a new one? 3 months ago:
There were modular phone projects that were killed by google.
But it’s intentionally hard to do it otherwise, to make more money out of broken phones.
- Comment on Why does it seem the majority of protests in the US are to oppose something while so many protests in other countries are looking to influence improving something? 4 months ago:
Nothing actually. As can be seen with the current situation.
- Comment on What the hell even is Diet Coke? 5 months ago:
Yeah, this comment is the real cancer.
- Comment on Do you prefer to buy games on Steam or GOG? 5 months ago:
The inability to remove files from your drive is quite a lot.
And DRM-free games on steam are not that many, most have at least something that closes the game if you don’t have steam running and I’m a bit sick of having to use goldberg every time I want to use a game without starting steam.
Of course GoG has a lot of (pretty bad) issues, but it’s like comparing a cold to a cancer, it’s absurd. Steam is actively destroying both game ownership (by allowing more and more DRM methods, now with games telling you to accept 5 different terms of use all indicating that you are heavily tracked while using the game for example) and game quality by encouraging the shittiest game, with a main page being completely unusable if you don’t filter out keywords such as nudity, nsfw, mmorpg, etc. GoG isn’t to that extent. Other things exist and if for example Itch had a better interface and search system it would unequivocally be the best game platform I am aware of as of now, sure. But trying to say that GoG and steam are the same (or that GoG is worse) is really not possible to do unless you actually don’t give a shit about games.
- Comment on Do you prefer to buy games on Steam or GOG? 5 months ago:
Hm, do I prefer renting games, or owning them for the same price…?
- Comment on How is Lemmy better than Reddit? 6 months ago:
Having fewer nazis and more “enlightened” centrists is considered far left nowadays
- Comment on Is investing in real estate immoral if you use it to buy your first home? 6 months ago:
Housing handled by the government leading to removing the requirement to take a loan to buy a house is an option. Landlords are never a mandatory thing, it’s absurd to think so.
- Comment on SDCC: ‘Star Trek: Strange New Worlds’ Season 3 Has A Lighter Una, More Romance, Genres, And Scotty 6 months ago:
Oh no
- Comment on [deleted] 6 months ago:
“Friend”
- Comment on New Things Gen Z Considers as Cheating on Your Partner 1 year ago:
Ok boomer
- Comment on The horrible morals of a show supposed to teach them 1 year ago:
Strong.
- Comment on The horrible morals of a show supposed to teach them 1 year ago:
Having the knowledge and memories of Jadzia should be enough for her to know better, especially after a life of a few centuries. A 300 years old trill that actually acts like a 20 years old does nothing apart from eliminating the interest of trills. If they learn nothing from one life to the other, the symbiot is meaningless and so is the concept of trills.
- Comment on The horrible morals of a show supposed to teach them 1 year ago:
The main interest of science fiction is to explore the moral and social effects of current, past or hypothetical events and technological discoveries. It could be basically called “philosophy through futurology”, and sci-fi without morals is just that, futurology.
Star Trek from the very beginning was like that, with things as simple as explaining that peace, unification of humanity, democracy and elimination of poverty and starvation are all linked and necessary to have a good world.
I guess you’re one of those “stop making shows political” people? Sci-fi shows are by essence here to teach morals, and even if it is unintentional the concept of imagining a future where humanity grew implies applying morals to the show. It’s not avoidable.
- Comment on 1 year ago:
The legend that defends rapist pedophiles, sure. Get the fuck out.
- Comment on The horrible morals of a show supposed to teach them 1 year ago:
Sisko was shown as “morally dubious but the end justifies the means” as in the end no one even scolds him for basically destroying a planet, and Odo was shown as “poor lonely changeling who wants to find his origins” and everyone forgives him no matter how much shit he does, because “they are my people” or something.