Disclaimer: I am not holding or promoting the following.
But the meme is “if you’re gonna eat a sandwich, you’d like it better if someone hadn’t fucked it first”
I think the core of the meme revolves around possession. Seeing the “sandwich” as something to attain, and possess, and consume. Indeed, I would not like someone to fuck my lunch. But a person has an independent life where their value is certainly not graded in such a way. ( Or any way, in this context)
If you are obsessed with taking something pure, and only having your influence on it, for all time, then the virgin thing matters.
gibmiser@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Virgins don’t know that you suck at sex. It’s an insecurity thing. Most people don’t realize it.
peopleproblems@lemmy.world 10 months ago
And then there’s me. Who has been with one woman, who was actually appalled by the whole attachment thing, but controlled so much of my life that I became permanently awkward, uncomfortable AND stuck with super low self esteem.
I don’t know if I suck at sex, or just suck in general. If I survive this divorce I’ll take that win right now.
Croquette@sh.itjust.works 10 months ago
For whatever reason, we make sex weird. Communicate with your future partners and it will be a lot more enjoyable for both of you.
You got this.