Disclaimer: I am not holding or promoting the following.
But the meme is “if you’re gonna eat a sandwich, you’d like it better if someone hadn’t fucked it first”
I think the core of the meme revolves around possession. Seeing the “sandwich” as something to attain, and possess, and consume. Indeed, I would not like someone to fuck my lunch. But a person has an independent life where their value is certainly not graded in such a way. ( Or any way, in this context)
If you are obsessed with taking something pure, and only having your influence on it, for all time, then the virgin thing matters.
gibmiser@lemmy.world 5 months ago
Virgins don’t know that you suck at sex. It’s an insecurity thing. Most people don’t realize it.
peopleproblems@lemmy.world 5 months ago
And then there’s me. Who has been with one woman, who was actually appalled by the whole attachment thing, but controlled so much of my life that I became permanently awkward, uncomfortable AND stuck with super low self esteem.
I don’t know if I suck at sex, or just suck in general. If I survive this divorce I’ll take that win right now.
Croquette@sh.itjust.works 5 months ago
For whatever reason, we make sex weird. Communicate with your future partners and it will be a lot more enjoyable for both of you.
You got this.