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• starman2112@sh.itjust.works ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Why is having sex so important to you? Aside from being a societal norm, there’s nothing wrong with not having sex

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  • DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Because they want to have sex, they just never learned how to get someone to want to have sex with them.

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    • starman2112@sh.itjust.works ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Right, but like. Why is wanting to have sex so important?

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      • ma1w4re@lemm.ee ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I’m not very sensitive to my feelings, this my entire life I relied on my smarts to figure things out. And now that I think about it bit more indepth, sex itself is not as important to me.

        I’m a romantic type, I want to love someone and maybe hopefully be loved too. Now, here’s my rambling: the sex part probably comes in a strong desire to have children that I noticed I have, and a want for emotional bonding.

        I’m not exactly 100% sure on this self analysis, but judging by a gut feeling when I imagine those things happening, I’d say thats probably the closest thing to reality.

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      • captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Idk but if it was a felony to get laid I still would. Probably a biological desire or something.

        Like, it’s valuable to deconstruct the social aspect of it, but also people had to go to the Supreme Court for the right to get laid in my country so there’s definitely more than just a social aspect.

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  • GeneralInterest@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Sex is important to most organisms. I don’t think people want sex just because it’s a norm in society. I think they want it due to an instinctive desire. Just like people want to eat food and breathe air.

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    • starman2112@sh.itjust.works ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Yeah, I worded my comment poorly. I can easily understand why someone would want to have sex. I just don’t understand why someone would be afraid of not wanting to have sex.

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      • GeneralInterest@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I guess it’s personal to different people. Some people don’t care about sex and that’s fine. Some people want sex, and as long as they do it in an ethical way (e.g. not sexually abusing anybody), that’s fine too.

        If sex does matter to someone then they might not want to lose that part of themselves. Just like, if you have a certain hobby, you might think “I hope I maintain my interest in this hobby, because it’s a key part of who I am”.

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