Comment on Anon has nerdy hobbies

• TheFriar@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  most women I know are between 25 and 50 years old

  Oh, so you only hang out with FEMALES AFTER THEYVE HIT THE WALL AND ARE NO LONGWR VALUABLE AND THEY PROBABLY ARE MANIPULATING YOU WITH THEIR VAGINAS EVEN THOUGH THEIR VAGINAS ARE POINTLESS AFTER 20

  (I literally felt gross typing that. Even though the people who genuinely think that way would probably say, like 17, not 20. Yuck.)

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  • Worx@lemmynsfw.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    17 is ok if you’re into older girls I guess. /s and also yuck

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    • TheFriar@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      It’s crazy how wrong it feels typing that, right?

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• RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Possibly. They didn’t say how young they were, so I assumed teens, not 30s.

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• Zink@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  I’d say “women” in a professional setting, but among friends I don’t see it as an offensive thing. It’s just an informal or casual thing. I’m a guy, and the group of women often includes my wife. But it’s said in a friendly tone.

  I think singular vs plural matters too. I would say “good night girls” to a couple of friends leaving, but not “good night girl” to one friend leaving.

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  • mugthol@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    If you say “boys and girls” that’s ok imo, but saying “men and girls” is probably condescending again

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    • Zink@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      I agree with that amendment. It’s about context just as much as tone and intent.

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