“If someone calls me, someone else better have died.” Is the sentiment I hear a lot but… Even that can be a text.
“Grammy died 💀”
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Toes@ani.social 2 months ago
Does anyone else get annoyed when someone calls your phone instead of texting?
Kolanaki@yiffit.net 2 months ago
Toes@ani.social 2 months ago
rip, when’s the estate sale?
Cheradenine@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
That was my argument with an ex years ago about turning the phone off at night.
‘What if it’s important?’
’ no one ever calls at 3am to say there’s 4 hooker’s, an 8 ball, and 10k cash waiting outside in a limo, it’s always your favorite grandmother died. She’ll still be fucking dead at 8 after I’ve had a shower and coffee, turn the phone off.
hswolf@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Right? It’s so weird, why would someone use a phone to make a… phone call, absolutely barbaric
Toes@ani.social 2 months ago
Exactly, it’s 2024 it’s so rude to call someone without asking if you’re busy.
don@lemm.ee 2 months ago
In France 400 years ago if you just called someone outta nowhere without texting first, you’d get sent to the guillotine.
Toes@ani.social 2 months ago
That must be why their phone company is called three.
Three strikes before the guillotine.
FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 2 months ago
[deleted]ickplant@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I’m an adult too. There is absolutely no reason for a phone call when it could have been a text. It’s like a meeting that could have been an email. No one likes those.
systemglitch@lemmy.world 2 months ago
You woke up to make that comment? Good look.
evranch@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
Only if I’m truly in the middle of something that’s time or focus critical. Otherwise I’m always glad to hear from my friends.
I have a FWB who I text with 99% of the time but awhile ago she texts “Can I call you? I really need someone to talk to.” Of course! It was a joy to talk to her, she lives in the city, I’m out on the farm. Told her she should call more often.
Like the other comment I despise voicemails though. If I don’t pick up, text me. That’s even my voicemail message now… And still people leave voicemails 🤬
RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Calls are fine but I get irrationally annoyed about voice messages. I hate those!
Calls are still acceptable in most settings (and easily blocked if not) but I won’t turn on my speakers with strangers around.
I hate that how-to questions often are answered by some shitty YouTube video for the same reason (but even when alone I won’t watch your crappy 10 min video for something that could literally be answered by a single sentence).
accideath@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Calls are fine, especially when they’re social or important. Voice messages are just a way of saying "I don’t respect your time because I’m forcing you to listen to 3min of bullshit until I get to the point, when you could read that information in 10s).