Comment on Anon gets a present

GrammatonCleric@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

• PunnyName@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  A standard green flag, for sure.

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  • MindSkipperBro12@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Ew, Irish…

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• Alto@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Should be, and usually is, but if you've never been in a healthy relationship you may not expect it. Especially if you've been in an unhealthy relationship.

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  • Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I remember my husband-then-boyfriend being super happy he could just ask me to do stuff and I’d do it. I mean, yeah, of course, that’s how relationships work?

    Took me a long time to figure out that for most of his previous relationship, that really wasn’t so obvious.

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    • Alto@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      That's pretty much my story as well. Early into my first healthy relationship I was in, my gf stopped by my work to drop me off a donut. Just happened to be showing nearby and thought of me.

      That shit was outright mindblowing to me at the time consider I had a negative sense of self worth.

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    • oce@jlai.lu ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      How do you go from husband to boyfriend without breaking up?

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      • Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Now husband, then boyfriend.

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• rambaroo@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  It’s not really standard. Lots of people are terrible at giving gifts.

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  • JokeDeity@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I’m grateful for anything I get, but honestly this year all I could think in my head with every gift I received was “do you guys even know me?”

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