Etymologically speaking bitch refers only to women, but in modern usage the pejorative is used for both genders
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wezzzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 hours agoIts a realy sexist word you can hate her all you want but this kinda language affects all women :(
Canadian_Cabinet@lemmy.ca 21 hours ago
TheJesusaurus@piefed.ca 21 hours ago
It’s pejorative for men because it implies you are a woman, you fuckwit
Stormy@thelemmy.club 21 hours ago
What’s next, are you going to say “pussy” is unacceptable for the same reason!?!?
jk I know you and the other guy are right.
MBech@feddit.dk 22 hours ago
Not the women who aren’t bitches, since it’s not directed at them.
Objection@lemmy.ml 20 hours ago
I’ve seen people use that exact justification for the n-word.
zeejoo@thelemmy.club 18 hours ago
If you’re really gonna try and act like bitch and the n word exist on the same plane of cruelty and offensiveness you’re just being flatly disingenuous.
zeejoo@thelemmy.club 18 hours ago
Words exist in context. If I called my female boss a bitch because I perceived her as domineering or demanding, that’d be out of line. If I call someone a dumb bitch for running one of the most toxic accounts on social media posting nonsensical disinformation, that’s very different. While I understand that being called a bitch can be very hurtful, I’m not calling you one, I’m calling someone else one, so being offended on their behalf is silly. I’m not gonna censor myself because someone might have a negative association with a word. And before someone says “I’ve heard the same logic applied to the n word” cool well I’m not applying it to the n word, I already don’t say that so I don’t need to censor myself.