Sometimes I lightly punch my friends in the balls to thank them for being vulnerable around me.
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Daywim@lemmy.world 2 months agoIt seems so surreal to me that other men don’t hug each other, or tell their friends that they love them
exasperation@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Zeppo@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
sometimes I rub their butts and tongue their balls to remind them that someone cares.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 months ago
because that’s gay.
Zeppo@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
many men do have emotional support from friends and comradierie though. Oddly, the more macho and often homophobic they are, the more gay it seems.
stopforgettingit@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Its so strange how that evolved too, my dad, who is silent generation and arguably one of the manliest men I have known, still did the back smacking one handed hugs with his close friends. When did men stop doing this?
kshade@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Furry here, we do that stuff. It’s pretty good, can recommend.
Forester@pawb.social 2 months ago
We do it a lot more but it does exist in other places just less hug centric more a hand on a shoulder. Normally social groups and clubs. it requires older men that are not entirely Jaded to set the example. Unfortunately those guys mostly have passed at this point and most boomers don’t have the cognitive bandwidth.