cabbage@piefed.social 3 weeks ago
Sex and porn are very different things. A lot of young men enter into sex imitating porn, and the results tend to be terrible.
In reality good sex is more about communication and trust than about being able to pull of crazy stunts. And once you have a good connection with someone exploring stuff is part of the fun, not something you’d like to outsource to a professional.
velma@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
There are some great informational videos and books from porn stars out there that shouldn’t be ignored though.
There’s a whole world of sex education that is powered by sex workers and the like.
ivanafterall@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Nina Hartley made me better at cunnilingus. I had one ex who said, “How do you know!?” Well, that’s how.
alternategait@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I 100% pass that exact video on to people who want to know how to be better at eating pussy with the caveat that most women will go wild for about 1/3 of the demonstrated techniques. Which third seems to be entirely unique woman to woman.
atro_city@fedia.io 3 weeks ago
Where can you even get these? They are from the 1990s
Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 3 weeks ago
If you’re a Xennial its easy. Go back in time and search through your dad’s wardrobe. That’s how I watched it.
atro_city@fedia.io 3 weeks ago
Did you learn anything?
velma@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
www.thriftbooks.com/a/nina-hartley/264520/?srslti…
That doesn’t mean they don’t still exist. Also she wrote the book in 2006.