cabbage@piefed.social 2 months ago
Sex and porn are very different things. A lot of young men enter into sex imitating porn, and the results tend to be terrible.
In reality good sex is more about communication and trust than about being able to pull of crazy stunts. And once you have a good connection with someone exploring stuff is part of the fun, not something you’d like to outsource to a professional.
velma@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
There are some great informational videos and books from porn stars out there that shouldn’t be ignored though.
There’s a whole world of sex education that is powered by sex workers and the like.
ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Nina Hartley made me better at cunnilingus. I had one ex who said, “How do you know!?” Well, that’s how.
atro_city@fedia.io 2 months ago
Where can you even get these? They are from the 1990s
Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 2 months ago
If you’re a Xennial its easy. Go back in time and search through your dad’s wardrobe. That’s how I watched it.
atro_city@fedia.io 2 months ago
Did you learn anything?
velma@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
www.thriftbooks.com/a/nina-hartley/264520/?srslti…
That doesn’t mean they don’t still exist. Also she wrote the book in 2006.