Comment on Is it reasonable to tell a person you once loved about the fact years later?

• AskewLord@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  OP is def looking for bias-confirmation that if they do this it’s all going to magically be perfect and solve all their sadness.

  typical internet nonsense

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• nitroemdash@lemmy.wtf ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  You provided no answer but “my experience tells me so”. No explanation, no proof, nothing. IDK, my experience tells me to reject bare appeals to authorutily, where even the level and source of your authority (age, sociological education maybe) wasn’t something you bothered to explain.

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  • Canconda@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I provided you answers, you’re just not emotionally intelligent enough to recognize them.

    Listen.

    Don’t tell her.

    For your sake.

    Good luck. You, specifically, are gonna need it.

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    • nitroemdash@lemmy.wtf ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I heard and counted your answer. Your answer was prefaced with a personal attack. You tried to invalidate the feelings I had and reflected on for years, the feelings that once motivated me to become a substantially better person, knowing me and the situation from a 726-character post. That personal attack was used as a part of your argument, so I found it reasonable to argue with it. By the number of downvotes, it seems the community largely agrees with the image you’ve got in your head, although I would argue you couldn’t have enough information from my post to make the loud claims you made.

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      • Archer@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        How old are you, man? I’m guessing early 20s? You’re gonna find out the world doesn’t run on logic and you can’t always act on feelings impulsively

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