Throw out the cheating angle
At this point, it’s less “cheating” and more “being trafficked by your boyfriend”
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stickyprimer@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Huh. Throw out the cheating angle and what you have is a restaurant business development plan for 5 or 6 ladies you know who’d like to eat for free every night. I guess the bill comes due when they need to shake the dude loose at the end of the night and then deal with his phone calls for weeks or worse.
UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 day ago
humorlessrepost@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Do people still give out their actual sim phone number?
piranhaconda@mander.xyz 1 day ago
I matched with two women recently who weren’t using their real name on the dating app, just first initials, A and Z. For A, I didn’t get her number until the end of our first date. For Z, she gave me her number before she gave me her real name and we still haven’t had our first date yet, busy schedules.
Nurgus@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I find that fascinating. I just wouldn’t turn up to an internet date who wouldn’t give me their number. If safety is an issue then get a burner number.
I married an internet date and our kids are nearly teens now. 🤷♀️
ComicalMayhem@lemmy.world 1 day ago
… we can just not??
humorlessrepost@lemmy.world 1 day ago
There are plenty of services that let you use burner numbers. Hushed and Burner are some popular ones, or MySudo if you want several whole profiles (phone number, email, etc).
CADmonkey@lemmy.world 1 day ago
TIL. Guess what im researching after work…
Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Back when I was still using online dating, it was part of the process of eliminating/reducing scammers, as well as disqualifying anyone who wanted to move to whatsapp. No idea even what portion of scammers vs legit people I eliminated that way. Eventually I was jaded enough by the whole thing that I had trouble engaging at all and just gave up on online dating.