Comment on Pride month

• stray@pawb.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  It depends on the person. Some asexual people can be quite sexually active because they don’t mind or enjoy helping with their partner’s sexual needs even though they’re not directly interested.

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• tanisnikana@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I don’t want to try it. Don’t even want to hear about it. Don’t even have functioning genitals on account of being intersex. I thought I was horny once, but that was just when Rush Limbaugh died.

  Some people tell me, “well, you haven’t had the right dick or pussy yet!” And I always reply, “and you haven’t had the right arsenic yet, keep trying different kinds.”

  Turns out that the wizard powers for being a forty year old virgin only apply if one ever had the option or desire to lose the virginity in the first place.

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  • teslekova@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    “I thought I was horny once, but that was just when Rush Limbaugh died.”

    Immortal words, my friend. I commend their beauty.

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• smh@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  ooh, ooh! Ace here. I went through a period where sex was my special interest. I went deep down the research rabbit hole, learned all about sex toys and methods and safer sex techniques. Had willing partners.

  At the end of the day, sex is boring and no one is hot/of an attracting gender. I guess it’s like if you were a super straight man and everyone else was men? I don’t know.

  Now I’m into knitting and kumihimo.

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• Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  How many times can you do that?

  Yeah sure, few times to find out what the fuzz is about and then move on. Do you have any idea how many times people have sex in a relationship, a lot more than just a few times.

  Just for clarification, I’m not ace or at least haven’t accepted it and just have difficulties with libido and remembering that I’m supposed to have sex.

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  • harmony@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Ace people can actually still have a strong libido! It’s more about sexual attraction.

    Of course, others are straight up repulsed by even the thought of sex. It’s a wide spectrum.

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    • Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yeah, they’re the lucky ones of the cursed spectrum. At least that can be taken advantage of even if there’s no direct target for it.

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