It depends on the person. Some asexual people can be quite sexually active because they don’t mind or enjoy helping with their partner’s sexual needs even though they’re not directly interested.
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SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 12 hours agoDo asexual people not even want you try it?
stray@pawb.social 12 hours ago
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 9 hours ago
How many times can you do that?
Yeah sure, few times to find out what the fuzz is about and then move on. Do you have any idea how many times people have sex in a relationship, a lot more than just a few times.
Just for clarification, I’m not ace or at least haven’t accepted it and just have difficulties with libido and remembering that I’m supposed to have sex.
harmony@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 hours ago
Ace people can actually still have a strong libido! It’s more about sexual attraction.
Of course, others are straight up repulsed by even the thought of sex. It’s a wide spectrum.
Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org 5 hours ago
Yeah, they’re the lucky ones of the cursed spectrum. At least that can be taken advantage of even if there’s no direct target for it.
smh@slrpnk.net 2 hours ago
ooh, ooh! Ace here. I went through a period where sex was my special interest. I went deep down the research rabbit hole, learned all about sex toys and methods and safer sex techniques. Had willing partners.
At the end of the day, sex is boring and no one is hot/of an attracting gender. I guess it’s like if you were a super straight man and everyone else was men? I don’t know.
Now I’m into knitting and kumihimo.