Both can be true. At the same time
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xav@programming.dev 19 hours ago
All those kid-negative comments are true. My 3 kids are noisy, tiring and expensive. But … now I’m very wary of the time when they’ll leave the house. They fill it with life and joy. Yes those laughters are magical.
Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 hours ago
BlackLaZoR@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
Yeah. It’s like nobody wants to acknowledge positive side
Nomad@infosec.pub 18 hours ago
That’s because these people don’t have kids and not a fucking clue about life. X)
Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 hours ago
Naybe that’s for the better, no?
I mean, who needs children that may grow up bitter and with no emotional connection becuase the parents werent into kids in the first place
Yeller_king@reddthat.com 3 hours ago
It is true that some people should not have kids, but I wouldn’t aspire to be one of those people.
Nomad@infosec.pub 17 hours ago
Probably better than the alternatives. I’m not about to force anybody that doesn’t want any children to have some. Just don’t understand the hate against the well meaning advice to consider there are emotional benefits that are hard to explain to people that don’t have children. I understand its unsolicited and often not welcome, but its like if you tell a friend who is about to do something obviously (to you) very stupid. You risk telling them out of a place of genuine care. They still retain to right to do as they please, but there is no need to be an asshole about it.