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Tiresia@slrpnk.net âš4â© âšweeksâ© agoThe goal isnât what you assume it is. Youâre projecting your own goals and concerns onto those men.
My guess would be exhibitionism. They get sexual gratification from acting sexually towards women regardless of how those women feel about it. As for women talking to each other, thatâs less of a risk on dating apps, and even irl it has never been decent at preventing sexual offenders from having plenty of victims.
Batmancer@lemmy.world âš4â© âšweeksâ© ago
I asked my man slut roommate (no shame, all sluts rock, all kind people rock) a while back, how he gets all these girls with this behavior?
He said, âI just cast a wiiiiide net and the ones that respond are downâ
Beautiful and simple explanation. Just like he was, to clarify, above average beauty, and =< average smarts. Pretty good guy overall. I donât recall he was a dick to rejection just moved along to the one that accepted.
Janx@piefed.social âš4â© âšweeksâ© ago
This makes me think of womanizing Boomhauer from King of the Hill. His âsecretâ is to just hit on basically every single woman he sees, lolâŠ
https://youtu.be/pNZU0SGmYyI
Soup@lemmy.world âš4â© âšweeksâ© ago
But was he sending unsolicited dick pics or just saying hi? Because if it was the first one I got some news for you, and that news would be about him not being a good guy just because you didnât have any problems.
If he was just saying hiâŠwhy did you respond to a comment about specifically unsolicited dick pics?
CentipedeFarrier@piefed.social âš4â© âšweeksâ© ago
So often the real thing is other men donât know how objectifying and creepy their womanizing friends are, because they arenât the target. They donât see the behavior so its easy to ignore.
Soup@lemmy.world âš4â© âšweeksâ© ago
This is where I just donât get it. Like, as a hevaily privileged dude, I just donât see how you can watch something like this and not go âwow, that was wildly inappropriate.â
Batmancer@lemmy.world âš4â© âšweeksâ© ago
That was the perfect question to clarify the divide between okay or not, I canât recall if they were unsolicited or not with certainty. Iâm pretty sure they were not because I wouldâve been upset and confronted him and I would probably remember the tension of the moment.
Iâm almost sure these were people he initiated conversation with already, with a, âdamn girl you look goodâ type of thing.
LogicOverFeelings@piefed.ca âš4â© âšweeksâ© ago
Ah yes, the good old spamming technique.
OpenStars@piefed.social âš4â© âšweeksâ© ago
Hey, survival of whatever adaptive traits workâŠ